Signing With Your Baby: Signing and Babysitters
Imagine this: You come to pick up your baby from her day-care
after a long day at work or after a quick run to the store.
Expecting to find a delighted baby, you're greeted by your
child's frustrated caregiver and your fussy infant. "What does
this mean?" the babysitter asks, rotating her fists. You
unhappily realize that your baby has been trying to ask for a
changed diaper for the last hour and her caregiver didn't
understand the sign she was using.
Some parents who sign with their babies are
stay-at-home-mothers, while some moms work outside the home.
Working presents a unique situation because your baby likely
goes to a babysitter for a certain amount of time during the day
and he or she may not be aware that you sign with your baby.
Even SAHM's can understand the problems that may arise when they
leave their babies in the care of a grandmother or favorite aunt
for a night out or a baby-free grocery-shopping event.
My husband cares for the children during the day while I'm at
school, and he works at night while I'm home. So, I am not
intimately familiar with the concerns of those who use outside
help on a full-time basis. I do, however, understand how it can
be a big concern for those trying to establish signing with the
baby and are unsure of how daycare will affect their efforts.
Michelle, located in the UK, put her daughter Rio into full-time
day-care at the age of 8 months. "I had mentioned from day one
that I was teaching her to sign," she said. "The nursery were
very interested in what I was doing and Rio's two main carers
borrowed the book and video to watch before she started there
full time so that they had an insight into what she was doing."
Her experience was a positive one because she had caregivers who
were open-minded and positive about baby signing. "On the whole
I found that there was a growing interest and very positive
approach to baby signing," she said.
Gill, also from the UK, is getting ready to put her 2-year-old
daughter Meadow in a day-care setting two days a week. As Meadow
is an established signer and no longer a young baby, her
concerns are less about the care providers using signs with
Meadow and more about Meadow communicating with other children.
"We've decided that we won't show the nursery anything more than
HELP and a couple of other important signs," she said. "She's 2
years old now and will be in a group of 2- and 3-year-olds who
she will interact with, but they won't be using signs."
Hints for consistency between home and day-care:
Let your sitter know from the very beginning that you are
signing with your baby.
Demonstrate the signs your baby is likely to use. Bring along a
sign language book or something similar that you can leave with
the sitter each day for reference (the SWYB quick reference
guide is great for this).
Let your sitter know which signs you're working on and tell her
how to use them so your baby can learn new signs at the sitter's
too. Keep the lines of communication open between you and your
child's care giver, and invite questions at every opportunity.
With these ideas in mind, baby sitters and care givers will be
an added benefit in your child's sign language communication.