Debt Stress And Debt Relief
Whenever you hear discussion of credit card debt, the various
best ways to manage it and clear it etc., one thing is mostly
ignored. Credit card debt can be extremely stressful and it can
have a very negative impact on your life.
It's always hanging over you, getting you down, making it
difficult to live your life the way you would like to. This
article takes a look at how to recognise debt stress, and what
you can do about it.
The Symptoms of Debt Stress There are numerous
symptoms that can be caused by stress. Some of the most common
ones are: feeling depressed and irritable headaches not being
able to sleep forgetfulness lack of concentration
If you have some of these symptoms but you're unsure whether
they are related to stress a visit to your Doctor may be in
order.
Who Gets Debt Stress? Just about everybody that has
debts gets stressed about them. Debt results in millions of days
off work every year and it's statistically one of the leading
causes of suicide. When you read about someone who has committed
suicide it's very common to find their name is followed by "who
owed [a very large amount] in debts".
Students and graduates are among the most vunerable, as debt is
growing here faster than in any other sector of society.
It's very easy for anybody to rely on their credit card, a
little here and a little there and before you know it you owe
thousands.
The average adult now owes many thousands in debts, tens of
thousands even and as that's the average, then it stands to
reason that many people must owe much more.
This being the case then always remember that you're not alone,
other people are suffering in the same way and there may well be
many worse off than you.
How Do You Deal With It? The perception of stress
caused by debt is often of embarrassment or shame. People with
lots of debts don't want to talk about it, even with their
family or close friends, for fear of upsetting people or looking
like a failure.
It's essential that you talk about your problems, storing it up
inside will result in even more stress. If you talk to no one
else you should at least talk to your partner. They are in the
best position to understand and possibly help you.
When you're ready to confront your debt stress probably the best
route is to find two people outside of your partner, one who can
advise you and one who can act as a counsellor.
That means a professional who knows what they're doing in regard
to financial matters and possibly a psychologist or psychiatrist
or some other kind of counsellor. Don't let stigmas deter you,
this is about your health which is much more important.
The next thing to do is to consider how you created the debt to
begin with. Dig out your old credit card statements. What did
you spend the money on?
By far the best way to defeat your debt stress is to pay back
your debts.
You need to sit down and work out a budget based on your income
and expenditure, cut as many unnecessary expenses as possible
and try to free up as much money as you can to pay back the
debts.
Even if it will take a while to clear the debt you know that
your debt is gradually going down and as it does your debt
stress will follow.