Panic Attacks and Anxiety
What is a Panic Attack?
You are driving across town, and get caught at a red light for a
few minutes. As you sit there, you begin feeling a bit strange.
Suddenly, your heart rate increases, a cold sweat starts on your
forehead, and you feel faint. You can compare the initial
feelings with the type of instant nervousness you get when you
receive terrible news about a loved dying or having an accident.
Your mind races to calm yourself down and relax, but you have
lost faith in yourself. You continue to try and regain control
by looking at the light and hoping it turns green. It has only
been seconds, but it feels like half an hour. You begin to think
of the last time this happened. You begin to have trouble
breathing, pulling in quick short breaths. Your hands and feet
go numb and are cold. Your stomach hurts and your lungs have a
sharp pain. Your chest is tight and feels like a sledge hammer
is banging on your chest cavity. Your vision becomes blurry, and
you can't concentrate on an image too long or you know you will
faint. You begin to wonder what will happen if you have a heart
attack, or pass out in the middle of traffic. Humiliation starts
to set in. You begin to worry about passing out and what people
will think or do. This causes more panic. You have to get out of
here, right now! Finally, the light turns green, and slowly the
car in front of you pulls ahead and you go through the light.
You immediately feel better, and the symptoms decrease. A few
blocks ahead however, is another light. You begin making
calculations in your head to see if you will make the next light
green. As you get closer to the light, you anticipate the worse.
You will get stuck here as well. Sure enough, the light turns
red before you have a chance to zoom through. That idiot in
front of you could have gone on yellow, and then you would be
okay! Now the panic process begins again.
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A panic attack causes a very fast reaction within the human
body. The attack alters the functions of many organs such as the
brain, heart, lungs, bladder, kidneys, eyes, muscles, and
others. When our brain released the adrenaline, we start to
experience a sudden rush of blood. Our heart begins pumping
harder and harder. The blood flow is increased throughout our
bodies. During this time, our respiration increases and we began
breathing faster and faster. This is only the beginning of a
panic attack.
Breathing Techniques:
Before you can control your panic attacks, you must be able to
remain somewhat calm during a panic attack. I know what you're
thinking, "How am I supposed to remain calm during a panic
attack?". Well, it is not easy. However, at the first onset of
panic symptoms, you need to start monitoring your breathing. You
will probably begin taking quick short breaths as soon as you
get the panic feelings. You will start to breathe from your
upper chest instead of your diaphragm. The best way to get a
handle on your panic is to take slow deep breaths and reassure
yourself with each one. I use a little trick of inhaling and
saying to myself "Peace" with each inhalation. I make sure the
breath is deep enough that my stomach is pushed out. I hold the
breath for three seconds and then exhale all of it while saying
"Relax". It is important to exhale all of the air in order to
keep the balance between oxygen and carbon dioxide in the body.
It will be hard at first to do this. You first instinct will be
to take quick breaths because you think you are having a hard
time breathing. However, if you continue to take quick breaths,
you begin to hyperventilate and that will only make things
worse. Just tell yourself you will be okay and slow your
breathing down immediately when you feel the panic coming. At
this point, don't worry if you feel faint or have a hard time
concentrating. You concern at this moment is you're breathing.
You will notice how much quicker you regain control when you
practice this method. Your panic may dissipate for a few moments
and return, but just start over again as soon as you notice your
breathing increasing. I have found that the more you catch the
panic, the less it will show up. I use this technique everyday
when I eat lunch out. Yes, it is hard and difficult. At first I
had a very tough time not "running away". However, I would just
concentrate on my breathing and catch all my negative thoughts
and replace them with positive statements such as the ones
listed below. I notice that with each passing day it is easier
and easier to eat in a restaurant when I am confident I can
catch my panic before it becomes a full blown attack. I feel the
ability to slow your body down by breathing "deep" is the first
line of defense in a panic situation. I know it has stopped my
panic from becoming a full blown attack hundreds of times.
Relaxation:
It is also important to relax. First, find a relaxing cd or tape
to listen to. Anything with ocean waves, natural sounds, etc
will work. You are going to listen to the cd while you talk
yourself into deep relaxation. It is hard at first, but don't
give up! Lay down on your bed and get comfortable. I know you
hear that heartbeat all ready, but just ignore it for now. Start
by telling yourself you are going to relax. Close your eyes, and
make sure your clothing is not restrictive. Start the music and
take deep breaths. With each inhale say "Peace" and with each
exhale say "Relax". It is a good idea to wait a few minutes and
just concentrate on the music. When you mind starts to wander,
immediately turn it back to the music. After a few moments, say
to yourself, "My scalp is relaxing, and I can feel it tingling
as it does." You should be able to feel your scalp relax a
little. Then proceed to your forehead, and down to your eyes,
your cheeks, nose, lips, entire face, neck, shoulders, etc......
You will be amazed as the muscles began relaxing on your
command. It may take a while to relax. During a high anxiety
time, it has taken me over 40 minutes to fully relax. I would be
almost through when my heart would start racing and my heartbeat
would be in my ears, etc. I just ignore my racing heart and
start over. Once you are completely relaxed, enjoy the serenity
for as long as you want. You may find it hard to stay in the
relaxed state because you mind is not used to being relaxed. If
it starts to wander and produce panic thoughts, start over. I
usually do this just before going to sleep, so I just turn over
and go to sleep. The results are great. I notice the next
morning I am a lot less anxious than the previous night. My day
usually goes a lot better when I have done deep relaxation the
night before. If you have trouble, try getting a hypnotic cd and
learn the way it talks you through reaching a deep state of
relaxation. In deep relaxation, you will not be able to "feel"
your arms, hands, legs, or feet. You will be very limp and
heavy. You may feel some of your muscles start to twinge on
their own, this is okay. It is only your muscles getting
comfortable. Remember, our bodies are so used to be wound up, it
takes a little while to unwind. It may be scary at first, but
just trust yourself, or me, or whoever you need to trust to get
there. I promise you will see a difference in your anxiety. We
have too much stress in our bodies, especially those of us who
suffer from high anxiety and panic attacks. By relaxing, we are
giving our bodies a chance to rest without the "clenching" we
normally put it through each day. Also, the more you relax your
entire body, the more you will be able to relax it during the
day when you feel a panic attack coming on. I cannot stress
enough how encouraging you will find this exercise to be.
Self Talk:
I also want to share with you other things of encouragement. The
way we talk to ourselves can play a big role in our anxiety and
panic. If you take the time to listen to your thoughts, you will
find that many are negative. I use the following positive
thoughts for encouragement. They are not listed in any
particular order, but I think you will know when you can use
them. It is very important to catch your negative thoughts and
replace them with positive ones.
- I am not ashamed of my panic and anxiety
- What can I learn from Panic instead of being terrified of it?
- I want to face the symptoms to gain new skills.
- It's okay to be anxious.
- I won't guard against anxiety and panic.
- I will consider all of my "tests" as practice, not "tests".
- I will be okay with myself if I am not able to do something I
want to do. I will not consider it a failure, just practice.
- I can live with uncertainty.
- It's okay if it doesn't work.
- I will allow the anxiety to do what it wants without trying to
stop it.
- I will try to allow myself to let go of control. The more I
can let go, the better.
- Each panic situation is an opportunity to practice.
- The best way to get through panic is to allow it.
- I can accept these thoughts for what they are - feelings. I
have had them before and it's no big deal.
- The more I allow the panic and anxiety the better.
- This will get better, it just takes time. I can try to accept
that I am making progress.
- Setbacks are a normal part of recovery. I will try and welcome
them as they happen.
- It's okay to have a panic attack. I will try not to fight it
and allow it to happen.
- The more I allow these panic feelings the better.
- When I stop caring about panic attacks, they will go away.
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