My Blue Days With Premature Ejaculation
Until recently I came to realize about the huge amount of men
around the world (30% -70 %) that suffer the embarrassing
problem of premature ejaculation in their sexual lives; and many
without any hope of healing. Before I knew this I thought I was
alone with my Premature Ejaculation problem and I couldn't see a
solution coming from anywhere. I don't know about the other guys
suffering from this condition but the first time it happened to
me, I didn't consider it as a scary situation, at most I felt
curious; "hey, anyone ejaculates fast from time to time" I would
say to myself. I didn't care much, I thought it was just that I
was tired and somehow "out of focus" that night. My wife, as
well, didn't complain much. It seems women, specially if they
love you, won't complain much at the beginning if you don't
satisfy her in bed from time to time. But my problem was growing
and getting worse with time. The fourth time it happened to me,
I had already spent one month without having any good sex at all
with me honey; and yes, she looked worried now. It was like if
she was already realizing it was not as simple as a hard working
day consequence, it was something else. Now I was starting to
feel scared and also really perturbed by what was happening to
me and my sexual life. How wrong was my situation that I
couldn't last more than a few moments before I ejaculated
without even really starting to have any true sex. Every time,
every day, me and my wife tried the result was the same. A
number of weeks passed and nothing had improved. I had taken
some vitamins, teas; I always tried to motivate myself before an
encounter trying to get rid of the great fear I felt of failing
again to my wife before having sexual intercourse...and that's
what used to happen, a fast ejaculation and my condition getting
worse. My wife now really looked desperate. I even started to
deny sex encounters wit her. Even if I was dying to get into bed
with my wife and have some good time together, I simply shied
away from her trying to think in something else. I felt
miserable. Now I couldn't even enter into my wife before I was
ejaculating like crazy; and yes it all was a crazy situation.
One full year had to pass until I finally found some real relief
for my ailment. I had started a search in many places, including
the web, for a solution to my premature ejaculation. I consulted
a number of physicians with not very good results, I had only
mild improvements during the first weeks but then I again fell
to the same stage I was at the beginning. Premature orgasms
every time I gave myself a chance to have sex. Fortunately by
this time my wife had understood that what was happening to me
was a real health condition that needed help to improve and I
was getting her support in my search for the cure. She even
showed her comprehension when I committed the great mistake of
using some of those "desensitizing" creams, what a mistake! If
she could not feel me before because I wasn't inside, now she
couldn't feel me even if I was inside for a moment or if
afterwards tried to use my fingers as an acceptable resource to
give her some satisfaction. It wasn't long before I realized the
big mistake I had committed by using those creams and I
immediately stopped using them for good. It was around those
hard and confusing days that I found the way out of my premature
ejaculation condition. I stumbled on it almost by accident, but
the results I've obtained are much more than an accident. I
finally came to realize that premature ejaculation is not an
organic disease, that my sex organs were right and healthy, but
that my mind was the organ that was failing me. I had a problem
with how I was approaching my sex life and fortunately it had a
solution. I started the recommended routines and exercises one
Friday evening by myself; my new discovery was making me feel
full of hope again. This time my wife didn't get really
involved, but it was because I had asked her so. This method
assured it would work even if I used it by myself, and
considering the other times I had worked with my wife side by
side and nothing really happened; I preferred to save me, and
her, the embarrassment of one more failure. This time I would
work by myself and hopefully make it work. And it did! From the
second week and on my condition started to heal and improve
consistently. I maintained the discipline with the routines and
exercises and just after two months my premature ejaculation was
totally cured, giving me the feeling of being a new man and
feeling in my best shape in years. The method I accidentally
discovered one night on the web had delivered and lived up to
his promises. My conclusion is; YES there is hope for all men
suffering from this condition, and the best of all news...YES
there is a cure for Premature Ejaculation. You just have to use
the right method to cure your condition. I did and I would
gladly recommend the method that cured me and gave me back my
sexual life.