15 Ways To Find A Husband
Perhaps you don't meet people in the course of your daily life,
or you're not connecting with the right type of person. First of
all decide what you have to offer to a future partner, by
working out what sort of things interest you. No one is going to
like all these options, but they are ways of widening your
circle of friends.
1. GOLF
Golfing is a male activity, get lessons and join them on the
course. Men network on the golf course all the time, take it
further and progress to flirting. Even if you are not good at
sports, the men will most often be encouraging of your efforts.
2 GO TO A SPORTS BAR ON GAME NIGHT Why watch big sporting events
at home when you can hang out a sports bar complete with
big-screen TV, electronic sports games? This is a particularly
good way to meet people if you are sporty yourself, impress the
guys with your knowledge. Sport is a participation event and it
is a lot more fun watching in a group than alone.
3.VOLUNTEER TO WORK FOR A NON PROFIT ORGANISATION. People who
are prepared to give a little of their free time are often very
caring people, capable of passion and commitment, there are
loads of group activities, that mean you can widen your circle
of friends, with the same interests. There is always the
possibility of a relationship progressing to a date .
4. JOIN A POLITICAL CAMPAIGN.
If you are politically inclined and have an interest in which
you are prepared to give up some time, this is a good way to
find a date. Not only that but you can be sure if you have both
joined to fight for the same cause, then you have at least one
thing in common. If it does not work to find a date than you
have lost nothing, but will have at least widened your circle of
friends.
5. EVENING CLASSES
You do not have to be academic here, it is not necessary to
study Physics. Find out about something that you have always
wanted to learn. Take the time to study another language, or do
something "arty". Art classes depending where you live, cover a
very wide base from sculptor, to water colors. Men can always be
found in a class about car maintenance etc.
6.TAKE SOME CRITICISM FROM YOUR FRIENDS.
Marketing yourself to find a mate is not always easy. Take some
advice from friends who have embarked on a successful long term
relationship. If you are always attracting the wrong sort of
person, ask a friend why they think that is the case. If you
have a healthy emotional life, you should spot fairly on in a
relationship that someone is going to hurt you. Realise your own
worth, some women do really believe that they are not worthy of
being loved. Boost your self esteem. If low self esteem is a
problem, then try and look at the tip below.
7 ENROLL IN A SELF-IMPROVEMENT WORKSHOP
Men sometimes tend to be more into self improvement than women.
However, any body who has taken the steps to enrol and
participate in this type of activity are probably sensitive, the
chances are they are also looking to interact with other
sensitive people. It's a great way for men to find out how women
think. Be positive you may not meet the man of your dreams but
will probably have boosted your self esteem.
8. JOIN A GYM
Even if you are fit and healthy you can always find men in a
gym. If you are not fit, then getting fit is a great way to
boosting you self esteem. Being fit gives you a better outlook
on life and you feel much better. You are also more relaxed when
you look your best.
9. READ "IF THE BUDDHA DATED," BY CHARLOTTE KASL.
Buddha means the enlightened one, or one who is awake. Kasl
gives you the best advice about how to make, but very
significant changes in your life. Part of her advice is to
literally make room for a partner in your life. If you have a
single bed get a double, if you have only one pillow buy more.
She also has some great tips for attracting new people in your
life. This isn't mandatory by any means but it will appeal to
you once you start reading.
10.STAND BACK AND TAKE STOCK
Men are not lost souls, they are not hiding away. You will have
far more chance of connecting with someone if you are personally
fulfilled. If you are into sports big time consider competing in
a marathon. Take a creative writing course, change you career.
Make yourself happy, and have some fun
11 JOIN A HISTORICAL SOCIETY.
Even small towns have historical societies, which will search
and record the local events in your area in the past. Most of
the will probably be male .
12. GET COOKING O. K. so you know how to cook, often men do not
and they will join a cookery class. This is a good one - believe
me.
13. LEARN HOW TO PLAY POKER. Most poker players are men, find
out how to play, and then join a game.
14.GO TO A BOOK SIGNING
Here is were you can guarantee that you will find someone with
similar interests and intellectual pursuits.
15. MAKE MEN FIND YOU
Since the earliest days of mankind, a woman can show a man she
is interested in him, the smart one's let him think he is doing
the chasing. This is the twenty first century and you can show a
man you are interested in him. Catch his eye and then
immediately look away, but then look back at him. If he finds
you attractive, he will think he has fond you, and will most
often make a move.