The Angry and Sometimes Grumpy Children of the 1950's
A bunch of us in our late 40's and early 50's got together the
other night, and after the evening was over I started thinking
that many of us born in the 1950's are in a crisis stage. People
can't understand why we are so angry and grumpy sometimes. This
article discusses some of the issues we have with society today
and might enlighten others (the younger set) as to why we seem
so disillusioned, and out of sorts at times.
The consensus of the group was "is this all there is." We've
been working since our teens. A car costs more today than what
our parents bought a house for. We work and work and still don't
have enough. Food costs have risen astronomically, along with
utility costs, insurance costs, and housing costs.
We started laughing at one point and said we sound like our
grandparents. However, it is a very sad commentary that what
took place for our grandparents over numerous decades, has only
taken 20 to 30 years to occur for us. The real scary thing is
that salaries for many jobs have not changed over that twenty
year period, while our expenses have skyrocketed, and increased
one hundred fold.
We all became nostalgic when we talked about the things we used
to do to relax. How so many of those things are gone, or we
can't afford to do them any longer. Our kids tell us we don't
have a clue about school, sex, music, or what's going on in the
world. Again, the laughter abounded with the music issues, but
became very serious when we talked about the scary things kids
do today, that we wouldn't even have thought of when we were
growing up. Killing teachers, and other students never entered
our minds. We had respect for our teachers and those in charge.
The next thing we ranted about was our health. For some of us,
the ravages of time have taken place... eyesight problems,
arthritis problems, blood pressure problems, "the barnacles of
life". The discussion we had on the cost of health care was a
lively and volatile one to say the least. Many of us who have
had major illness problems also went ballistic with regards to
the social security system, the disability system and Medicare
system. The majority of us have worked since our teenage years.
We were incredulous when it took over a year to get money from
the social security system, especially when we see people
playing the system who don't deserve it.
All of us are still working. The majority of our group are
either self-employed or independent contractors. Many of us run
home-based businesses. While we are still disheartened with the
rise in costs, at least our work environment is a happy one, and
one we feel in control of. For those in our group still working
in corporate America, that's just an additional concern and
stress for them. Is their job safe? Will they be downsized? Laid
off? We went back and forth on the work issue and found that
while running your own business is a risk, we have a lot more
control over our destiny than if we worked for someone else, and
hence, a lot less stress. Plus we can't fire ourselves.
We all wondered where it will end. So many of us thought we
would be retired by now, or at least contemplating it within the
next ten to fifteen years. However, with all the medical
advances and hundred-fold costs of so many things, that is not
an option. Retirement is no longer something people do
automatically between 55 and 65. Today, the retirement age is in
the 70's. For many of us, the thought of another twenty or more
years of working is a depressing one, in addition to making us
very angry and grumpy to say the least.
Hopefully this article will provide some insight to those who
wonder why the over 40 generation is so angry and grumpy at
times.
Copyright DeFiore Enterprises 2002