How To Raise Your Self Esteem By Becoming Stronger
Many people in life would like to gain more confidence or to
increase their self esteem. In this article, I give free tips on
how to do this. I myself have managed to change my whole life by
implementing the advice given. I hope it also proves beneficial
for you.
I am Stephen Hill from England. I had many issues as I grew up
from a child, through the teenage years, and finally to
adulthood which had a damaging affect on my confidence levels.
These included:
A bald patch on my head
A speech impediment known as a stutter
A weight problem, I was basically too fat
I am quite short at five foot four
Certain people I met would be quite nasty and would try to make
fun of me. They would succeed as I would be very hurt from their
comments, even though I tried to never show it.
These people were making my life a misery and by the age of
twenty-two I had had enough. I decided I needed a big change in
attitude and started to read books about life and about positive
thinking etc.
These were the things I had to take on board:
It is not important what other people think of you, it is what
you think that counts
You need to start to like yourself
There are various things about your person, you do not like but
which you can not change. You therefore have to start accepting
these things and realising that maybe there are other people in
life who are more unfortunate than you.
You need to have respect for yourself
Do not accept second best in life
Be happy
I tried hard to implement this advice and even though it was not
easy to change, I knew I had to. I basically live life to the
full now and try not to worry about anything trivial.