How to have a happy and productive life.
Living a happy and productive life is nothing more that the sum
total of many happy days of doing productive activities. It is
about creating as many "Now" moments as possible.
How to have a happy and productive life.
Know exactly what it is that you want.
Decide what happiness means to you. Search for what you want
out of life and what you enjoy doing and having. Whatever you
are seeking, you will find it within. Information from books,
other people's opinions and ideas are stimulus to trigger your
thought process. The answers are inside you.
Have full control of your future.
You can become and have anything that you desire because you
are in control. To be or not to be is up to you. You can choose
to act instead of reacting. You remain dogged by the same
situation repeatedly because you have not chosen to have control
of your own mind and attitude. Once you decide to take charge,
you will end your pain and misery.
Hang around with happy and productive people.
Disassociate and walk away from people and situations that
cause unhappiness. Hang around with people you trust and are in
harmony with your needs and desires.
Enjoy work that is fun and challenging.
Nothing is more stressful than doing work that you don't enjoy.
Find work that gives you pleasures and makes you feel excited.
It is the kind of work where you can put you heart into it and
will perform your best.
Enjoy your own company.
Learn to enjoy your own company. Lavish yourself with reading,
learning or indulge yourself with any activity that makes you
happy. Expect the best from yourself and you activities. Explore
and discover the real you and persuade yourself to like whoever
you are. The most important person and the only person you talk
and listen to on an ongoing basis is the one inside your own
mind.
Build better relationships.
Treat others well and with respect, appreciate them and you
will get the same treatment. Invest time, energy, spirit and
your heart into your relationships. Commit to promote each
others' welfare and happiness. Avoid misunderstandings and
frustrations by communicating effectively. Share your concerns
and understanding each others values and rules.
Create new things.
Do something different to create new interests. Working on new
things personally and professionally motivates and increases
your chances for personal growth and satisfaction. You will
build better life skills, create new opportunities and meet new
and interesting people.
Each activity and progress will lead to more growth each day
and will have a cumulative effect on your future.
Keep your attention on your goal.
Guard your mind from negative and disempowering thoughts. Focus
and concentrate on what you want even when you are confronted
with difficulties and challenges. The more problems you solve,
the happier you will feel and you will create more energy.
Heal your soul.
If you have made mistakes, forgive yourself, get up and get
going. If someone has done you wrong, don't let it blind you.
Rise above it, don't get intimidated and let it poison your
future. Move forward to chase your dreams and purpose in life.
Life is too short to pay long visits to old hurts and the
unfairness of life.