How To Overcome Your Shyness With Women
Don't worry about. Many men are shy with women. Some don't
really get over it, but the good news is, most men do. Its just
about self-confidence. Most men are shy because they fear
rejection. Being rejected or turn away can be quite an
embarrassing situation, but if you handle it right there's
nothing to it. This is a very normal reaction, but if you never
take the risk, you risk losing the woman who might very well be
the right one for you. Shyness shouldn't hold you back.
If you continue to be dominated with your shyness you will live
a life that is lonely and depressed. It will interfere with the
natural ability to coexist with the opposite sex, you will just
be holding yourself back from enjoying their company. If you are
shy with women, you will lose the ability to communicate well
with them, you will be too preoccupied with their reaction and
your actions, in other words, you'll be uptight. Shyness is
easily noticeable, women will perceive this as a sign of
weakness, thus losing the chance to really get to know you
better. You don't want that. Here are some tips and guides on
how to get over shyness with women.
Build up your confidence. Do not be afraid of rejections. One
good way in building confidence in getting over shyness with
women is picking up or meeting women for others. When you do
this, you eliminate the factor of the fear of being rejected.
Since it is not for you, they may say no not because of you, but
because of your friend. If you have mastered this, you may soon
be picking or meeting up a girl for yourself.
Casually open up yourself to everybody, not just to women. Learn
to smile a lot more, smiling is much more contagious than the
flu. But don't be too over eager do it gradually. In time you'll
be open up to everybody, even the women.
Don't look at women as another being, treat her as a more
refined guy friend. Be causal at firs, don't look at her as a
sexual object. Have a nice casual talk and things will just
develop later on. If all your after is getting laid, women will
see right through you. Be gentle with the women but don't look a
her as a goddess as well. If you act like the woman is too nice
for you, you'll never go anywhere. She will sense it and think
as well.
Do not expect anything. If you get into her face expecting so
much, you'll be in for a lot of disappointment. This is how
jerks are classified. Being too confident is also a bane in the
dating scene. Just go with the flow of everything and enjoy
yourself.
Do not be afraid of getting rejected. If you don't take the risk
you'll never know if you could have had her as a great friend.
The key in doing this is to stop taking things personally.
Sometimes, there are people who don't really mean what they say.
You cannot be bothered if you don't take it personally. Just
don't be too self-conscious, and soon enough you'll get over
your shyness with women.
Getting over shyness with women is not an easy task, but not
impossible. You will just have to learn to trust yourself, try
to socialize more. Get out and explore. Everything starts and
depends with you.