Abusive Relationships
When ever people are involved in an abusive relationship, they
have a tendency to blame the aggressor. However, both parties
are responsible for their overall interaction. I know, it sounds
weird but let me further explain myself. In order for a person
to continuously mistreat or abuse another one, the victim must
be permitting it.
If you observe this situation closely when a person truly loves,
respects and has total self confidence, they will not tolerate
any kind of disrespect from others. They may deal with it once
or twice but will move on if they see a pattern.
Why do confident people move on?
* They understand that true love helps you grow and prosper.
Rather than, hold you back.
* Real love gives you all their support while, controlling
people will give you a cold shoulder.
* A person that loves you will listen to your needs and try to
work things out. Instead of disregarding you're every single
need.
* They will understand that you are your own person, not an
extension of them selves.
* They will not only love you but they will also give you all
the respect that you deserve.
* They will never intentionally belittle or ridicule you.
Instead they will always find a way to uplift you.
So, if you currently in a relationship where your partner is
either emotionally of physically abusive get out now. Seek out
professional help and the help of your love ones. Their support
will help you boost your confidence level but, most importantly
regain control of your life.