Learn to feel good about yourself
It happened to you more than once to meet a person and before
getting to actually know the person, to realize that you simply
couldn't get along well with him or her, no matter how hard you
tried.
There are a lot of ancient believes, which say that people we
simply can't stand, reflect, in fact, a bad or weak point of our
own personality, which we totally dislike. In other words, if
you dislike about yourself the fact that you are afraid to speak
in public and you are making efforts to change that, you will
probably despise people who have the same problem that you do.
Nevertheless, once you solve your problem, your feelings towards
that person, might turn into pity and you might find yourself
trying to help that person.
Always remember that, in order to feel good about yourself, you
have to create and maintain a perfect harmony between your inner
and outer world, meaning between your soul and your body,
between your thoughts and actions, between yourself alone and
yourself in the company of others. We all agree that our inner
world, our souls, have a great impact on also on the action we
perform in the outside world, which is why specialists strongly
advise you to meditate on how to achieve harmony within
yourself. Here are also some things to keep in mind:
* Try to forgive more, because nobody is perfect and everybody
makes mistakes. Accept the errors that people around you commit,
but don't forget about your own mistakes. Remember that it takes
a very strong person to have the power to admit having done
something condemnable and even if, at the beginning, the others
might blame you, be sure that, after a while, they will
appreciate your honesty.
* Get more attached to the persons around you and say a strong
no to the isolation. Scientists confirm that human beings are
more happy and feel more accomplished with themselves when
living in society, surrounded by other people. Thus, you
shouldn't be afraid to make more friends. If you are wondering
how you can do that, we recommend you start by listening more to
other people's problems, stop being egocentric and offer your
help, whenever you're given the opportunity. The feeling of
being useful to the others, will result into a feeling of quiet
and peacefulness with your own person.
* Although everyday life gives you plenty of reasons to be angry
and affected by stress, keep in mind that defeating these
feelings will make stronger and thinking in a positive manner,
by trying to discover the good aspects in any less desirable
situation, will get you through problems.
* As the human being should be, as we stated before, a perfect
harmony between our souls and our bodies, don't forget to take
care of you physical appearance, as well. I you are not
satisfied with the way you look, do not hesitate to do something
about it. If your problem cannot be solved by any possible
means, then you must start to love yourself exactly as you are.
As soon as you do that, by finding the peacefulness and the joy
of being alive, you'll discover the same kind of feelings also
in the eyes of the ones surrounding you.
The last advice specialists give you is to never be afraid to
ask for help or advice, because by doing that you do something
for yourself, you let the others teach you how to improve your
own person, which will always result in making you feel
accomplished.
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