Tough Decisions Made Easy
Sooner or later it happens to us all - a big decision comes up
and we don't know what to do. Whether it's deciding the fate of
a relationship, choosing a work path or some other dilemma,
sometimes we get stuck between choices.
That's when we often turn to experts, friends or family for
advice. However, the answer to your dilemma lies within, because
no one else knows what's best for you. You've got a built-in
guidance system that will lead you to the right answer every
time, without fail. That guidance system is your
emotions.
So what to do next time your head is spinning with no clear
answer? It's easy: use your guidance system by paying attention
to your emotions and choose what feels best. That's it -
plain and simple. No need to consult best friends, therapists,
or astrologers; no need to toss and turn each night wondering
what to do. Your emotions will tell you loud and clear.
How does this process work? Consider each of your choices
separately, in detail, and pay attention to how you feel with
each one. How will it feel as you announce this decision to
others? How will it feel to follow through on the actions? Do
you experience a surge of energy? Does a smile hint on your
lips? These are good signs this is the right choice for you.
If, on the other hand, your energy drops, your shoulders feel
heavier, or you feel anxious - this isn't the choice for you. No
matter HOW much sense it makes in your head, this decision is
not the most direct route to a happy ending.
Here's a heads up on what trips us up: When we can't decide,
it's usually because we're in the grip of our gremlin
(a.k.a. ego or reptilian brain). It's not likely we're going to
make the right choice when our gremlin's in charge. Our
disguised fear can drive us to make the socially-acceptable
choice, rather than follow our true heart's desire.
So when you're making a tough decision, choose what feels good,
keep your fears in check, and remember that no one else can make
a better decision than you can for yourself. You can't go wrong
choosing what feels good!