It's not your call!
There is one action that we take towards others that irritates
everyone. That action is sticking our noses where they do not
belong. To explain it better this happens when we give
unsolicited and unnecessary advice. It also happens when people
try to find out about the others person's private life. Another
form is by dropping a hint to the other person that states your
awareness of their personal issue or simply of their private
life. I am sure that many will disagree with me since they are
accustomed to doing it all the time. But, this behavior is wrong
unless, you are truly HELPING the other party. A good time to
interfere in someone else's private life would be if you suspect
the person has some type of addiction, psychological problems
(danger in general). Other than that we must all learn to focus
on our personal lives and not on others; If you are wondering
why? It's because we all have feelings towards certain issues
that we rather not express. Perhaps because their memories bring
us pain or guilt and you know what, we all have a right to keep
our private lives, you guessed it! PRIVATE. No one should have
to deal with disclosing intimate information that they do not
want to share.
So, if you think that it is okay to butt in on to other people's
lives, you are wrong! Everyone has issues that they rather not
talk about. So, put yourself on the other person's shoes and
imagine someone else intruding on your personal matter. How
would that make you feel? Will you get angry at the other
person? Is it possible for you to hold a grudge against that
party? I am sure it would make you feel bad and it could even
lead to resenting him/her for invading your personal space.
The bottom line is implement the famous quote "treat others the
way you want to be treated." We all like to maintain our private
matters as they are. So, respect others people will unless, you
intend to damage your personal relationship with them.
Remember respect is the foundation of our relationships with
others.