Finding A Balance With The Contrast
After reflecting for some time on what of a personal nature did
I want to share this week, I finally came to a bit of a quandary
I'm working through and what I'm learning in the process.
It's about Katrina and actually much more. The happenings with
Katrina and the incredible amount of media coverage is just one
'right in my face' example of a bigger issue which is "How do I
balance the contrast -- the fear/lack/struggling type energy --
with the desire to not be like an ostrich with my head stuck in
the sand?"
I have found that I can pretty effectively shelter myself from
most of what's happening in the world without a great deal of
efforts. After all, I live in a quiet rural community in the
mountains of North Carolina, and unless I turn the TV on or go
searching on the internet, a lot of stuff that's happening in
the world doesn't come onto my radar screen.
And if I'm being brutally honest with myself, I not only like it
that way, I've designed my life to be that way. As I told one of
my clients this week, I live where I live because I find it
conducive to my living true to my purpose. It's easy to be of
service from here. It's easy to live a simple life, and it's one
of the most spiritually serene places in the world.
Could I live true to my purpose in South Central L. A. or
downtown Manhattan? Sure! Least I think I could but I do know it
would take a lot more effort. And yet the dilemma I see is that
my life purpose isn't just about me. It includes YOU, and you
and the rest of the world.
So what's the solution? So far what I've found works best for me
is to find a balance -- a happy middle of the road. When the
Twin Towers fell on September 11 I was stuck to the TV screen
for days, to the point that I felt like an airline had crashed
into me. Too much contrast.
This time I've tried to be more mindful of what I watch and how
much. I watched some of Oprah's show which I found saddening yet
with a note of hope and encouragement. But even there, I took
smaller doses of it.
And while I try to stay abreast of what's happening without
being swept away by the drama, I continue to ask myself what can
I do that's consistent with my life purpose? One thing I've
realized from that is that where I live has many summer homes
that remain vacant for much of the year, especially from
September through May.
Not sure what to do with that that would be most effective but
for starters I'm going to write a letter to the local paper --
an opt-ed - - suggesting a grass roots movement starting to help
connect the homeless people from Katrina with the empty homes we
have in this area. If anything comes of this, I'll let you know.
That's it for me. Brad Swift still living in the Paradise Found
of Flat Rock NC.