Do You Love Yourself?
Always feeling insecurity over your love relationship? So much
so to the extent of even feeling suspicious, doubting your
partner's love for you? Well though it might not exactly always
be your fault but still I must say, this is the beginning of a
very unhealthy relationship. In the long run, it might even lead
to an end of the relationship.
I should believe that you are having such thoughts because you
really cherish this relationship? But well, perhaps cherishing
it just a bit too much? Think about it, how would you feel if
things were the other way round? Would you like it if your
partner were to doubt your love for them instead? Always calling
on you to find out where you are, whom you are with, what you
are doing? Believe me, nobody like that. It is only negative and
more negative feedbacks that I have got from friends that are
having such encounters. Some, who simply cannot stand it,
initiated a break off.
Remember, trust between partners is one of the key criteria to a
happy and fulfilling relationship. Without it, an ever-lasting
relationship would never be possible.
But first of all, before we can built up this mutual trust, that
is one very important thing you must achieve and that is, to
trust yourself! If you don't even trust yourself, how can you
expect others, your very love to trust you? To have faith in the
relationship?
You must believe in yourself, believing that there is this very
special you within yourself. A very special you that make you
well liked by friends and family, which of course also include
your very love, loving this very special and unique you.
Everybody is unique in his or her very own way. That can only be
one you and no more else in this world. Your friends and family
like you for who you are. Your love, loves you for who you are.
So when everyone genuine likes you, how can you yourself, don't
like yourself as who you are? Doubting your very own self? I
don't suppose you wanna lose your friends and that special
someone whom you truly love?
Look into the mirror today and tell yourself, "You are great! I
love you!" Yes, when you love yourself, you will naturally have
this feel of confidence bringing out that very radiance in you.
When you yourself are happy, others will naturally feel happy
when being with you.
Remember, love is always a two-way communication. It takes two,
a happy you and a happy him or her to complete the equation.