You!
Sometimes people put all their energy into others around them.
Instead, of focusing on themselves, I understand that you may
care or feel love for them; especially children that required a
lot of time and attention. But, don't you ever forget about
yourself. If you put all your concentration in to others then in
the long run you may start to resent them because you may not
feel all your energy reciprocated.
So, my advice to you is: Find a way to show your affection to
your loved ones without putting yourself in a second place.
Remember, only you know your true feelings and desires.
Therefore, you should be able to care for yourself before you
care for others. The bottom line is no else knows you better
than you!
So go ahead and put yourself first!