How To Get Over A Break Up, Breaking Up
Breaking Up Sucks But It Happens. What You Need To Know Now Is
How To Get Over A Break Up And Move On!
The best way to get over women is to just forget about her.
Forget about your relationship and force yourself not to feel
the pain. Refusing to give up and refusing to let this one break
up ruin your entire life is a great start. Instead of wallowing
in despair and self pity, pick yourself up and tell yourself
that you are better than this and that you don't need her. Tell
yourself that you will get through this, convince yourself that
a broken relationship is far from the end of the world.
How to get over a break up is also to start hanging out with
your family and friends. It is especially important that you
hang around positive people. While it may seem like fun to hang
around people who will whine and bitch about your ex-girlfriend,
that's only a temporary kind of fun because you know that for
all the bad qualities that she had, there were reasons why you
stayed with her and that she was not all bad. Tainting your
relationship by bitching and whining will probably hurt you more
in the long run.
Not thinking about your relationship and the woman will help as
well. When you go to places that you went with her or eat at
your favorite restaurant, don't think of these things! Don't let
these memories haunt you. Avoid these places for as long as you
need. This because the longer you keep thinking of what was, the
harder it is to handle the rejection and break up. Whatever
memories you have of her, just file them up and forget them.
Lock them away in a corner and throw away the key. Constantly
thinking about her and dwelling about the fun or sweet moments
you had is not how to get over a break up.
The final thing that needs to be done to get over break ups, is
to return everything of hers. Every little thing that belonged
to her, give it back. I'm not suggesting that you return
presents, but it may be a good idea to get rid of them or at
least put them out of sight. This relates to the 'good memories'
that you made during your time together. In order to get over
the rejection, you should not dwell on the past. These items
will cause you to do so and that is why you need to get rid of
them.
Getting over break ups isn't impossible. Just continue to live
your life and find new goals and things to do. Dwelling on the
past, in this case will not help you get over it at all. So as
much as possible, just file and forget.