6 Great Questions That Will Help You Find Your Focus
Do you have a ton to do and have no idea where to start? Would
you like to know with each step you take you're heading in the
right direction? Would you like to narrow your "to do" list down
to a few key items and let go of the rest? Would you like to
work smarter, not harder?
The questions below will help you do just that. Answering these
questions will help you find your focus so you can do what you
want to do and feel great about your life while you're doing it.
1. What do I care about most? Or, where is my heart leading me?
Only when you allow yourself to do what you care about most will
you begin feeling better about your life.
Asking this question will give your HEART a space to speak and
be heard. When we get wrapped up in all the "stuff" we have to
do we often overlook what our heart wants.
2. What do I really, really want to do? Or, ask yourself "is
this what I really want?" If the answer is "no", ask yourself
why you're doing it and then find a way to stop doing it. So
much life is wasted doing things we don't want to do.
Doing what you really want is a process of identifying and
letting go of the things that you don't want and replacing them
with things that you do want. Overtime you'll rebalance your
life to include MORE of what you want to do.
This question will give your DREAMS an opportunity to come to
life. This one question could set your life on a new course.
3. How do I want to feel while I'm doing what I'm doing? If what
you're doing doesn't give you pleasure while you're doing it,
you may be on the wrong track. Why? Because "doing" takes up
much more time then the result. The result happens once. We
reach each goal only once and then it's over. The journey to our
goals is what fills our life with experiences. If you're not
feeling good during the "doing" (aka -- the journey) is it
really worth it?
This question allows your SPIRIT to come alive -- to be
experienced. Give yourself permission to do things that feel
good and you'll live an inspired life.
4. What is the "for sake of what" behind what I'm doing? Another
way to word this question would be, "In the big picture of my
life what purpose does this action serve?" If the answer isn't
clear you may be letting life lead you.
This question helps you CONNECT THE DOTS and make better choices
for your life. Basing your actions on a clear purpose puts you
in the driver's seat which means you are LEADING your life
instead of letting it lead you.
5. What am I going to do? Make a list of all the things you care
about and all the things you really want to do and prioritize
them with a "1-2-3" approach. Rank your list in order of
importance.
Of course we make choices (decisions) about what we're going to
do all day long BUT how often do we make choices after asking
questions 1-4? Answering the above questions FIRST will give you
the opportunity to bring more of what you really want into your
life.
This question requires a CHOICE be made. Now you've narrowed
your focus!
6. How am I going to do it? After narrowing your focus create a
mini action plan for each item. Write down the steps you'll need
to take to make it happen.
Tip: only focus on 1 or 2 things at a time (ex: over the period
of 1 month). Don't try to do everything at once. That will just
lead to overwhelm. Give yourself a chance to worker smarter and
you will get more done.
This question will inspire you to TAKE ACTION. Nothing happens
without it. In order to create the life you want you have to
give your dreams, heart and spirit a voice and space in your
life. However, this alone won't make things happen. You have to
channel all these things into a clear course of action.
Instead of jumping into your "to do" list, take some time to
reflect upon these questions. By doing so you'll put yourself on
a life and/or business path that reflects more of what you
really want. Determine your FOCUS first and you'll live a
fuller, richer life.