Do you have the skills to be a secret service agent?
Do you have the skills to be a secret service agent?
Do you have the necessary attributes to be a successful secret
services agent? Do you melt into the background where no one can
see you? Do you hide behind someone else? Would you describe
yourself as having an incognito life? Are you capable of always
putting yourself second? Do you constantly defer to another
person? Do people see right through you and ignore you?
Then you have the skills.
You see, as John Reilly, states in the song he wrote for the
musical Chicago; you are no more than Mr. Cellophane man.
Mister cellophane Should have been my name !!!! Mister
cellophane 'cause you can look right through me Walk right by me
And never know I'm there!
The question is:
Are these the skills you need to have an effective life? Are
these the skills that bring you fulfillment and happiness? Are
these the skills that show off your uniqueness and enable you to
fulfill your role on this planet?
In our experience the answer is, no.
So how do you avoid being Mr. Cellophane man?
Simple.
Start by changing your focus of yourself. Rather than look at
what is wrong with you and what needs changing. Sit quietly with
yourself for a moment and look at your qualities.
Ask yourself: