Do you have the skills to be a secret service agent?

Do you have the skills to be a secret service agent? Do you have the necessary attributes to be a successful secret services agent? Do you melt into the background where no one can see you? Do you hide behind someone else? Would you describe yourself as having an incognito life? Are you capable of always putting yourself second? Do you constantly defer to another person? Do people see right through you and ignore you? Then you have the skills. You see, as John Reilly, states in the song he wrote for the musical Chicago; you are no more than Mr. Cellophane man. Mister cellophane Should have been my name !!!! Mister cellophane 'cause you can look right through me Walk right by me And never know I'm there! The question is: Are these the skills you need to have an effective life? Are these the skills that bring you fulfillment and happiness? Are these the skills that show off your uniqueness and enable you to fulfill your role on this planet? In our experience the answer is, no. So how do you avoid being Mr. Cellophane man? Simple. Start by changing your focus of yourself. Rather than look at what is wrong with you and what needs changing. Sit quietly with yourself for a moment and look at your qualities. Ask yourself: