Go On ! Give your Enemy a Hug
Go On ! Give your Enemy a hug!
Give your enemy a hug! Another preposterous idea from yours
truly, even the thought makes some people shudder. My husband
had been having difficulty with an old mate, whenever he met him
there were sneers and snide comments. A feeling of animosity
generally pervaded the atmosphere between them. So, Jeremy my
husband, set about imagining giving this fellow a hug. In his
mind he set a scene and in it he frequently gave the old mate a
hug. The next time he met this mate in the flesh, the change was
amazing! Gone were the sneers and snide remarks- the problem had
been healed. I have tried this myself since then and believe me,
it really works! The power of unconditional love is amazing, and
it is free. It just takes a small amount of your time. Have a go
and see. So, to move on a step further, after you have given
your worst enemy a hug, how about giving yourself a hug? Imagine
yourself as a small child, allow that small child to climb up
onto your knee and hug him or her. Do this at every available
opportunity when you have a quiet time. Imagine playing with
that child in the playground or on the beach. See what happens
to the inner you. You will find that you begin to grow as a
person, you move on as your capability to love and like yourself
blossoms. Consequently, your ability to love others will also
grow. The tough bit about what I have said is