Train Your Man
For the ladies
I work on the premise that your man is willing to give you
everything you want; that he wants to make you happy, if only he
is shown how. If this is a stretch for you, I suggest your
belief is the main thing standing between you and a wonderful
relationship.
When a man does not meet your expectation, you may tend to
contract or withdraw. Resentment can creep in and your man pays
in the end - either subtly or directly. A cycle can form where
you may "cut him down" more often than you "build him up".
My coaching and articles will centre around helping you to:
1) See you actually can have everything you want from your
relationship 2) Get clear on exactly what you want 3) Show your
man how to give you what you want, in such a way that you both
win! These steps often require a shift in thinking, and giving
up some behavioural habits. You will need to take responsibility
for your relationship - often an uncomfortable place to stand.
The result is a positive cycle where he enjoys giving you what
you want - wins from it - rather than acting out of obligation
or fear. This leaves you radiantly happy, which in turn makes an
ENORMOUS difference to his life.
Ask yourself