Psychic Dependency
Psychic dependency is just as detrimental as any other form of
addiction or co-dependence! There are countless stories of those
who have spent thousands of dollars on psychics, to the point of
financial ruin! All because they had a need and the psychics had
the greed! When you are down, vulnerable and 'out of control' of
your own life and you are so wanting to hear a particular
answer, it can be so easy to become dependant on the psychic
that gives it to you, even if it is the wrong answer. Even if it
goes against your own intuition and logic.
Our psychics have had many people say well psychic so-and-so
told me it was going to happen, why are you saying the opposite?
These same people that get conflicting answers from other
readers also tend to 'psychic surf'. They don't like or want to
hear what is said and off they go to the next one. They will go
from one to another and to another looking for answers, wanting
to hear over and over a certain outcome, in fact sometimes
demanding it! The bottom line is there is no guarantees! You
heard it right here. I don't care what psychic you consult, how
good they are, how long they have been doing it. There is no
psychic reader that can claim 100% accuracy!
We all are sometimes very lost and needy. Most of us don't seek
out a psychic reading unless they are uncertain and confused
about their feelings and direction or that of a significant
other in their lives. In this state of being though, you are
also very vulnerable to becoming dependent on psychic readings
to ease this discomfort or pain. Combine that with crossing
paths with psychics that can pick up on this and use it to their
advantage and as Emeril says "Bam". This can be an explosive and
harmful combination if the psychic is not trained and
experienced enough to separate themselves from their seekers. It
can also be harmful to the seeker if the psychic they choose is
less than ethical. You are on your way to, more often than not,
the poor house!
Truth is always what you need to seek and getting anything less
is not fair to your mind or spirit and very harmful in the end.
You may not get the answers you want to hear from our psychics
but we hope you will understand that it is only your best
interests at heart. By the same token, there can be times when
you will get the answers you want to hear, and we may be wrong
too! I know it may seem strange to have us telling you about our
shortcomings rather than our miraculous results. Accurate
Psychic Advice is just so saddened by all the claims psychics
make in regards to their abilities that make people believe in
them too much! This is a huge reason why people can become
dependent. They want to believe so desperately that all those
huge hyped up claims are true!
We have had to give people disheartening news so many times, in
spite of knowing they want to hear something different.
Unfortunately, at times, People are told that an outcome has
changed for whatever reason. Free will and choice still always
come into play with every single reading. Most of the time we
can see why that has happened and what changed the overall
outcome and explain it, but sometimes not. This can be very
disappointing to the seeker of course, but also to us as we feel
as if we have 'failed' them in some way. This is where
experience and training come in. How do you tell someone that
has been seeking your advice for a number of days, weeks or even
months that it has all changed? This is very difficult, but
should the client be told? That line unfortunately is crossed by
many psychics. They have predicted the same outcome for so long
and been accurate with so many others that they themselves
cannot believe that it has changed. For some psychics this can
be devastating to their egos as well as to their 'track record'
and will choose to tell the client what they want to hear,
rather than the truth. This is again, where ethics and
experience come in.
Unfortunately when the outcome changes, sometimes the person
getting the reading is disappointed and angry and will lash out
at the psychic, more often than not leaving bad feedback or
telling others that the psychic was leading them on or lying
etc. This makes it easy to understand why sometimes a psychic
will not change the reading once they have given you a certain
outcome. You as a seeker cannot blame the psychic, and the
psychic should not be made to feel or believe they need to blame
themselves. That is just sometimes God's plan and no matter how
desperately we want and need answers, sometimes some things are
just not meant to be known until we have lived through them.
The best way to avoid this heartache at all times is learn how
to be in control of your own life. Learn how to get in touch
with yourself and your own intuition. Learn how to take what
seems like a hopeless situation and make it into something good.
Every experience is a learning experience. If you are
heartbroken because a man or a woman has left you, you have lost
your job, your life is in a shambles or you are confused and
scared, start searching within yourself for answers. If you are
going to look to others for answers and help, make sure you are
finding people that empower you. People that give you advice on
how to deal with yourself and your life, not how to change or
control others. Seek out books and people that tell you how to
manifest real positive changes in your life, not how to just
'survive' through it.
Find a psychic reader that you feel comfortable with, that
proves their abilities to you and stay with them. I always
recommend my clients get a second or possibly even a third
psychic to look at their situation, but not a million more!
In any situation in life we always need to maintain our own
power, even when there are other human beings involved. Getting
answers from a psychic can be wonderful and if you have chosen
the right reader that is highly accurate, ethical and
empowering. Please do not become dependant on psychics! In fact,
do not become dependant on anybody. We all need a helping hand
and advice in our lives, but we also need to learn to make our
own decisions and choices and be responsible for them.
In regards to how often you get a reading. Go by the questions
you are asking. If you are given a reading with particular time
frames and a general outcome, It's best that you allow this time
to pass and the events to play out! In other words if your
psychic gets that an outcome will not manifest for approximately
3 months, wait 3 months! Feel free to consult another reader of
course for confirmation if you feel it is necessary. It is
suggested that you do wait at least a day or so before getting
another reading, for this confirmation. If the other reader
gives you approximately the same time frames for the same
questions, chances are it is going to take that long! Calling
for a reading once a week on the same issue does not speed it
up! If you have new situations crop up that require a new
reading, by all means feel free to question it. These new
situations do not pertain to just feelings. We are speaking of
actual physical changes or manifestations in you situation or
dilemma.