14 Feng Shui Tips to Create Romance & Passion in Your Life
Your bedroom is where you're renewed, energized and romantic.
It's your sanctuary. Your bedroom will affect your prosperity,
relationships and well-being. Everything is connected.
Whether you're looking for a new relationship or looking to
enhance an existing one, these tips will set the scene.
1. Create an inviting sanctuary What is your bedroom saying?
Does it reflect who you are, and set the scene for the
relationship you want, or is it a room you don't think too much
about because you only sleep - or try to sleep there. Want more
to happen in there?
2. Let go of past associations You are affected by the energy of
everything in your surroundings. Does your furniture remind you
of the past? Do you have photos of past partners? Yikes! Let go
of anything you don't want to bring into your present or
upcoming relationship.
3. Make your bed the primary feature What's in your bedroom with
you? Exercise equipment, desk, computer? This energy will
conflict with the purpose of the bedroom - serenity, romance and
renewal. If necessary, use a screen to separate these different
functions.
4. Remove the television from your bedroom A television will
affect your relationships, and your sleep. The television is a
more vibrant, yang energy, which can make it less relaxing for
sleep, and take your attention away from your partner.
5. Position your bed The ideal bed position is as far away from
the door as possible, and with a clear view of the door from
where you lie. If you cannot see the door easily, this will set
up an unconscious vulnerability that will affect the quality of
your sleep and other aspects of your life. A solid headboard
will support a strong relationship.
6. Who are you sleeping with? Your bed holds the energy of
anyone who has slept in it. Support the beginning of a new life
with someone by replacing your bed. And, considering you spend a
third of your life in bed, invest in the best possible.
7. Don't let Clutter Bog You Down! Clutter affects all areas of
your life more than anything else, and your bedroom is no
exception. Clutter here will be affecting your health, your
prosperity, and both existing and potential relationships.
Clutter will prevent you from creating your dreams.
Don't underestimate the importance of clearing your closet.
Clients report this gives them an immediate increase in energy
and improved feelings about themselves. Give away anything that
doesn't make you feel your best. One client found herself
writing her autobiography after procrastinating for 4 years. The
more you express of yourself, the better your chance of having a
relationship that works for you.
Clutter is anything unfinished, unused, unresolved, tolerated,
or disorganized. So, this could be physical clutter, or
unresolved issues with your partner or an ex partner.
8. Get a fresh perspective on your art Art work is a powerful
enhancement in creating your life. If you're a single woman,
having a picture of a lonely woman walking along the beach will
not be helping you create someone new in your life. Make sure
your art is sending the right messages. Position images of pairs
of things in your bedroom and relationship areas of your home.
9. Make space for a relationship One client set the intention
for a new relationship in her life, and made space for it by
making space in her closet and in her bathroom for the person
who would come into her life. She added a second pillow on the
bed. Within a very short time she was in a new relationship.
Set your bedroom up for two if you want to create a
relationship. Have matching bedside tables and lamps. What
represents romance to you? Have pairs of things such as two
dolphins, two roses, two candles.
10. Nurture your number one relationship - the one with
yourself. Are you being the person your ideal partner or your
existing partner will fall in love with? Are you fully
expressing your unique gifts? Nurture yourself with your
favorite scented candles, music and sensual fabrics.
11. Think back What did you allow yourself to do while in love?
Allow yourself to be that person and do those things. Get in the
mood. Write poetry, be wildly sexual, say no to invitations you
would rather not accept. Indulge your senses. Treat yourself as
the god or goddess you are, the one your partner falls in love
with.
12. In the heat of love, what are the things you allow yourself
to believe about yourself? That you are beautiful, desirable,
treasured? You are still that person. If it