Foreplay Tips For Couples
Guys are you confused, clumsy, and don't know what to do when it
comes to Foreplay? Does your heart drop and you hesitate at the
mere mention of Foreplay? If so, then it's time for a lesson in
Foreplay!
As many of you have probably found out, most women consider
"Foreplay" a very important part of sex. And there is very good
reason for this. Our bodies don't react sexually as fast as
yours does. We need some warm up time to get into the mood.
While each woman is different as far as how much foreplay she
requires before she is sexually aroused, studies have found that
most women all like the same type of foreplay. So based on that
theory, and some of my own experiences as well ;-) I've put
together a list of "Foreplay Tips For Couples".
Hugging
This is a great way to start off your sexual romp. Most women
love to be hugged. To be held tight by their lover. This gives
us a protective feeling and tells us you want to be close to us.
It's easy to do, just start by holding your lover close and
pressing her body against yours. While hugging her lightly kiss
her neck and shoulders.
Petting
While laying down run your hands lightly and softly up and down,
exploring the peek and valleys of her body. Some women love to
have this done to their neck, shoulders and back. Others, like
to have their buttocks gently massaged. And yet others love
their breasts softly caressed. This will all depend on where
your lover's erogenous zones are. If you're both undressed
gently kiss and lick these areas as well. She'll be like putty
in your hands, ready to be molded in any way you want.
Kissing
It's important to start off slowly. Just a soft pressing of your
mouth against hers. No tongue to start. After a few of these
kisses slowly start to push your tongue out just a little bit,
hopefully enticing her to open her mouth. As her mouth opens
gently slide your tongue in a little further. Then press your
lips against hers a bit harder and with a bit more passion. From
there move to kissing other parts of her body as well.
By this point your lover should be really turned on. If you both
still have your clothes on it's time to start removing them -
slowly. Start with her top and bra.
Caressing Her Breasts
Place your hand on her breast. Softly caress it. Use your
forefinger and thumb to gently squeeze her nipple. See how erect
it is. She is really turned on. Now stop and take a moment to
tell her how beautiful she is and how much she is turning you
on. Women want to be told this, and now would be the perfect
time. Then softly take her nipple into your mouth, run your
tongue around it's hardness. Use your hand to softly caress her
other breast.
What happens next will depend on you and your lover. But, it's
now time to explore her vagina. You can gently place your hands
between your lovers legs. If she is still wearing panties gently
rub her private area while still kissing her body. Slowly move
her panties to the side and gently explore her clitoris. Very
lightly rub her clit with your fingers. Or, if you like you
could go down on her using your tongue to softly stimulate her
clitoris. Either way, that's up to you and your lover.
The important thing to remember about "Foreplay" is that it
should be done gradually. Slowly increase the physical and
emotional sensitivity. As the arousal mounts you increase the
stimulation bit by bit. By following these simple "Foreplay Tips
For Couples" you and your partner will have the most erotic, but
sensual love making sessions ever.
Happy Foreplay!
Marie Clare
Relationship Consultant & Author