Tips on Cunnilingus, Fellatio and Orgasms!
Sex, women, men... Sex, orgasms, feelings... Sex, cunnilingus,
fellatio...Cuddles!
I have had many men request that I give them more information
on exactly what women like in the sex, and feelings department.
OK, well I will do what I do best, just simply share what my
thoughts on these subjects are. Take them or leave them!
There are so many sites out there that are about dating,
relationships, how to score, how to win, and yet men are still
looking for answers. Why is that? Maybe it`s because not every
answer fits every women! That may be your first hint guys. We
are all different, what works on one women will make another
women slap your face with disgust. So I would think that a good
thing to do is to just chat a bit with the lady and get to know
the side of her that she is willing to show you. Hopefully you
are smart enough to listen to her, and learn as she talks. Oh,
and please save the checking out her boobs or her butt until
after you have won the first battle.
I truly believe men are so quickly blinded by our physical
protrusions (wink) that they immediately lose their focus at
first base. Guys, the body parts are not going anywhere. Have
some class and be patient. OK, enough about that very somber
subject. I will leave that for another show, as they say.
Women's feelings, as most men have already experienced are
nothing to joke about. Women are sensitive creatures and at the
same time very strong. Those two characteristics are nothing
short of explosive. The beneficial side to these hard to deal
with emotions is that women are just as equally passionate and
loving towards the male gender. It is our passion that fuels our
desires to be wanted by men. We send off certain signals that
entice and attract men. Women know exactly how to win a mans
heart. Remember, we are the more sensitive feeling being, of the
two genders. We also deal with hormones that turn us into
monsters one minute and little tiny babies in another. Our
feelings are usually on the top of our skin. That's why we get
hurt so much easier than men. We are child bearers, and that
instinctively causes us to be more cautious and rely on our
intuitions more than facts. So guys , please forgive us for
being the more feeling human. Do not hate us for it, or get
frustrated with us, but love us and know that for all the pain
we share, we also share twice as much pleasure. That brings me
to my next thought!
Sex, that is definitely a good thought not to mention a very
fun act between men and women. Women love to be touched, and
felt. She wants to feel your hands on her body. It is a very
important physical connection that sends messages to her most
intimate senses. When a man touches a woman's body, she feels
wanted, she feels lusted, she feels craved, but most of all she
feels SEXY! Her self-esteem will ROAR! That my dear sweet men,
is exactly the point you want her at. You want her to feel SEXY!
Women do vary with having their breasts played with. This
should be done gently at first, so to not turn her off. Some
women love a very passionate kiss. A passionate kiss can be an
instant orgasm. Women love to feel the sensation of your breathe
on thier skin. That will surely send her to a new level of
sensations. Women have very sensitive backs. A women's spine
will tingle with the slightest touch of your finger tips. Kiss
her shoulders, please. Kiss her belly! Kiss her thighs, that is
another very sweet spot for women! Kiss her between her legs!
She will be warm already, anticipating the sensation of your
tongue! It is a very sweet way to taste the women that you
desire! She will feel that much more open to you, knowing that
you want every part of her body! Women`s bodies have so many
sensations that it does take them a bit more time to get them to
have an orgasm. The more sensations that you can get a women to
feel, the higher she will go into her orgasm zones. Spend time
tasting her, never rush her. Also please no not wear out just
one spot. Women know there good spots, ask her to tell you what
feels good. Be patient though, women do have a harder time
talking about sex. Listen to her moans, read her body language,
feel her wetness. All these are signs being sent to you. That's
a plus for you also. The more orgasmic a women feels, the more
adventurous she will be when it is you she wants to devour.
Remember, to tell her how SEXY she is and how sweet she tastes!
Let her know how good she feels to you. Let her know that she is
driving you crazy. Women also love to know that for sure. When
men are quiet during sex, women feel that they are not exciting
or sexy. Women need to hear that men want them and want to
please them. When women feel they are wanted, that in turn makes
them want to please their man. HMMM! Where do you think my
thoughts are going now?
MHM!! Women also love to please their men. They know that men
crave fellatio, better know to most as ,"Blow-jobs". (SMilz) Yes
guys we know, we know. Women read more that you can imagine how
just how to give their guy the best BJ. There are just as many
books out there and sites on the internet about that as there
are about how to please a woman. My hint to all the women
wondering out there is...PRACTICE!!!! Body language from your
man is a must to watch for. Not all men are the same. Some men
are more sensitive in some areas that others. Just as women are
also on different levels of sensations when it comes to oral
sex. Another good tip ladies is your thoughts at the time of the
Bj. Think sex. Think wet.Think suction. Think warm. Think HIM!!
Love him!! But most of all suck him like you want it. The more
he feels that you are just absolutely crazy for it, the more
intense it is for him. Do not be afraid of what you are doing.
You cannot hurt him unless you bite. That's a NO! NO!.... DO NOT
BITE or SCRAPE! :) Don`t be afraid to ask him how it feels, or
if there is anything more you can do to please him.
Communication, as in anything, is important in sex. It is after
all, something that we want to enjoy with one another. Also we
learn more about each other through sharing our physical
desires. Ladies another very huge turn on for your man is when
he sees you feel SEXY! When a man sees his woman sexy, confident
and open to him, it will totally send him over the edge of lust
for you. So lets get SEXY!
When all is said and done, Cuddles is a biggie. We need to
cuddle. It reassures us that everything was perfect. It's kind
of like the icing on the cake. It bonds us on another level of
communication. Some women and men have their best conversations
when they cuddle. It is almost like a surrender of weapons.
Well these are my thoughts on this. I hope I have not offended
anyone. I know this is a different subject than what you are use
to reading. But I am human also, just like you. Also I wanted to
show a little attitude of a different color for my readers.
Enjoy life and enjoy all of it benefits.
We only get but one shot at it.
Men and Women were made to enjoy each other.
So just do it!
_Dorothy