Dating Tips For Animal Lovers!
Did you know that experts say the way people treat their pets is
indicative of how they'll treat you in a relationship? Minus the
sex and relationship talk, having a pet is very similar to a
romantic relationship. A pet needs to be cared for, fed, bathed
and loved, just like it's human counter part. As mentioned in my
book "the Ultimate Online Dating Handbook" most often if someone
is loving and kind to their pet they will likely be so in a
romantic relationship as well. But on the other side of the
coin, if someone tends to be domineering and pushy with their
pet, you can pretty much expect the same thing with your
relationship.
People who have and love pets will usually look for a mate who
has that same quality. And pet owners will often judge people
based on how they treat their pet. If someone continually yells
and howlers or strikes at their pet it is generally concluded
that this person needs anger management classes. These people
will usually have animals that cower and even shake at their
site.
There are also those who consider their pet to be just like
people. These people will do things like feed their dog from the
table. Sometimes this can show an unwillingness or an inability
to say no. Or what about the person who over accessorizes and
spoils their pet. They could be overcompensating for something
not found in their life. It may show this person to be shallow
and superficial. Their pet may be nothing more than an accessory
to them. They are in constant need of external approval.
If you are someone who really loves their pet then it is best to
find a mate who also loves animals. Usually problems occur when
someone who is not fond of pets tries to have a relationship
with a pet lover. If your new lover is jealous of your pet it
will be a real problem. Most likely it is the relationship and
not the pet. Generally these same people who are jealous of pets
are also grumpy about their partner's work workplace, friends
and time alone. This person can be attention seeking and
insecure.
Are you an animal lover with a new lover? If so, watch for the
scenarios above and choose a new mate both you and fido can love.
Good Luck! Marie Clare Relationship Consultant & Author