Love Thy Self!
Finding the love of your life could be quite difficult if your
self esteem is low. A possible mate can see a low self esteem,
and unless you work on improving your self esteem, the thought
of attracting a potential mate may prove to be a difficult task.
So the basic key to finding the right person is to be truthful
to yourself and to learn how to love thy self. Loving yourself
means knowing yourself and vice versa, and finding out what it
is that makes you tick is the first step in boosting your self
esteem. Being able to congratulate yourself for doing a good
deed is a way to basic self esteem, especially in public. Being
assertive is one of the best skills you can have, assertiveness
can help you in your personal life, careers, and yes your
relationships. Being assertive is to recognize that you yourself
has thoughts, dreams, feelings, and emotions. Plus learning to
deal with things that make you uncomfortable will help in
becoming more assertive. When you are feeling good about
yourself and your self esteem is better, others will notice. You
will have a much better chance to finding and building a
gratifying relationship with someone who sees your for who you
really are. Possible mates like to see their partners take
control of situations, and to know what they want out of life
and relationships. Projecting the right image is very
attractive, and you want others to see the real you, and not
just someone you think they want to see.