What to do when sex turns out not so great!
There are many complaints from couples, mostly women, that
suggest that their relationships are suffering in the sexuality
department. They can range from lack of attention, to just plain
not getting it done in the bedroom. What can one do about this
dilemma? It is clear that the man in the relationship usually
wants to please his significant other, so what is it that turns
the woman away from the man, or vise versa? We will look a
little deeper into the issues that surround couples who are
suffering in the sexuality department of their relationship. Men
in the relationship are hard noise, get the job done, and don't
ask questions along the way. I admit it, I am one of those guys.
However, when it comes to my wife, I have always put her above
all the rest, and placed her high on a cloud, cause that is
where she belongs. When she isn't in my arms, of course. Well,
one of the many complaints from women is that their husband
doesn't have intimacy and tenderness. Women love to be held,
touched, romanced, and caressed, it is the one thing that makes
them feel special in their relationship. Doing the little things
is what shows a woman, that you do have a heart, and are not
just in it for sex. So what does one do to bring this aspect
back into there love life. One little phrase comes to mind that
sums it all up. "Do onto Others, as You would have done onto
You!" Isn't that the best. If you want to be held, then hold
your partner, if you want to be caressed, then caress your
partner, and if you want to be romanced, then you got it romance
your partner. Who said that it had to be one sided. He will get
the picture, and start reciprocating the emotion. There is
another very common complaint from women, and that is they are
getting to repetitious and perhaps boring. Believe me, it is so
easy to fall into this trap, especially in relationship that
have lasted more than 10 years. It is so easy to get caught into
a sexual routine, same time, same way, and yes same place. The
place part bothers me a little, we do have children, and making
love outside the bedroom, is sort of out of the question. But
the other factors can help influence the routine some. Variety
here is the key to success, spicing up your sex life is a great
way to get out of the daily routines of sex. My opinion, go sex
toy shopping. I too was skeptical in the beginning, but now it
makes things so much more interesting. And once you get those
creative juices flowing, the routine will be changed and you
have brought back the spark in your relationship. The last big
complaint that women have when their sex isn't good, is the all
powerful Foreplay. There are a few articles on this site that
will help you out in the foreplay department. Foreplay doesn't
mean just oral sex. Foreplay can start in the early morning
right before heading off to work, and it can work it's way all
the way into the evening if it is done right. Women need and
desire foreplay, because they are emotional creatures. Their
minds feed on the passion of knowing what they may or may not be
getting later on after a nice quiet evening. Foreplay is the key
to helping a woman become sufficiently aroused before
intercourse begins. This will also help her achieve her special
feeling during intercourse. So I will close on one important
fact. Communication with your partner is the key to bringing the
satisfying sexual relations back into your relationship. Knowing
your partners needs will greatly improve your relationship and
bring yourselves closer to intimacy, the way it should be.