In Search of the Orgasm
The Orgasm, commonly know as "climaxing", is described as
pleasurable spasms of the clitoral muscles and a release of
sexual chemicals that result from an overload of stimulation. It
is the sexual goal between two people to bring each other to
achieving one or more orgasms. Sexual activity is about fun, and
pleasure, and there are many women who find sex very fulfilling
but never experience an orgasm. These women find it more
gratifying with the physical and intimate areas of their love
life. When a woman has an orgasm, she is actually having a
series of contractions of the uterus, pelvic muscles, and the
lower vagina. These contractions flush blood out of the erectile
tissue. Orgasm's are highly pleasurable sensations, and are
localized in the pelvis region. After a woman has had an orgasm,
she becomes totally relaxed and sexually satisfied.
An orgasm has eluded about 10 percent of women in America. It
is also known that the majority of women don't have orgasms from
just vaginal intercourse alone, and usually need some sort of
clitoral stimulation for effectively achieving an orgasm. While
a small number of women can obtain an orgasm through direct
stimulation of the nipples, vulva, and other erogenous zones.
Most women achieve orgasms through masturbation, which is also
more intense than an orgasm through intercourse. Oral sex is
also a great way to bring a woman to orgasm, the sensual
stimulation of the clitoris during oral sex, usually works every
time.
Each an every orgasm is different, sometimes they are soft and
subtle, sometimes they are violent and intense, no matter how
you experience an orgasm, note that it shouldn't be the only
issue between two couple to achieve and orgasm every time during
sexual play. It should ultimately be the goal of the couples to
enjoy each other sexually, and let Mother Nature take its
course. Once two people are in tune with one another, you will
find that orgasm may come much more freely, and with little
effort at all.