Oral Sex Techniques (Beginner)
If you have never performed oral sex, or fellatio, on your
partner well here are a few good tips on learning this ancient
art. Giving a "blow job" or "Going Down" on your partner is one
of the most misunderstood sexual acts. In fact most premarital
couples choose fellatio and cunnilingus as a substitute for
intercourse. So if it is god enough for them, why can't it be
introduced into the bedroom as a form of foreplay? One more
thing to consider, with the threat of STD's and pregnancy on the
rise, oral sex has become increasingly popular over the last
decade.
So you want to learn fellatio, well let me tell you a little
secret. Fellatio is so easy to learn, with a little practice, a
little will, and a little want to pleasure your partner; you
will be giving your partner the best oral sex of his life. Men
really aren't that picky in this department. Just the thought
that his significant other has the eagerness to please her man,
is all he cares about. So lets get you into the learning mode,
and we will go over some basics.
The most important tools for properly giving oral sex are your
tongue and lips. After you have taken great care and time to
your partners body, making him just want you that much more, you
can now move in to the penis. Softly kiss and lick his entire
penis. Don't put it in your mouth yet, don't be so eager. You
wouldn't want him to go directly to the clitoris and attack it,
no you would want him to kiss the outer areas of the vagina
before make his move. Same applies here; make your tongue as
flat as possible and slowly like the shaft like an ice cream
cone. Start at the base and work your way up the shaft paying
close attention to the head of the penis. This is his sensitive
zone, so don't go all crazy there; just softly caress the area
with your tongue.
Now gently grasp the base of the penis in your hand and take
the tip of his penis and place it into your mouth. Now slowly
glide the penis as far as comfortable into your mouth. You may
want to practice with a vibrator or dildo before hand, to find
out how much you can take without gagging. Be careful not to use
your teeth at this stage, your partner may not like it. Now
simply slide his penis in and out of your mouth in a rhythmic
fashion, and lightly pressing your lips around his shaft. Vary
the speeds, and stop every once in a while to pay attention to
the head of the penis before continuing on. Know before hand, if
you intend to have him ejaculate in your mouth, or on something
else. He may intend on ejaculating in your mouth and not bother
telling you. Communicate with your partner to let him know what
you plan to do.
The more you practice, the better you will get and you will be
doing it like a pro in no time. Besides, you and your partner