The Heart and Soul of Masturbation
Masturbation is defined as any kind of sexual stimulation that
does not include intercourse. There are many ways that we humans
pleasure ourselves, touching the erogenous zones in a way to
enhance sexual feelings and sensations. We make use of our
hands, breath, feathers, bondage gear, and yes sex toys, to make
masturbation interesting. There is no right and wrong, just the
experimentation of exploring your body, and learning what your
body likes and dislikes. For most, women have found that they
masturbation is their only way to achieve an orgasm, and they
rely on this form of stimulation to achieve this sensation.
Mutual masturbation, in which couples stimulate each other, is a
very rewarding experience for woman especially. They are able to
get to there orgasmic place more easily and not have to focus so
hard on the intercourse to get her the rest of the way there. If
oral sex or masturbation is used before the actual intercourse,
the "Wham Bamm Thank You Mam", stereotype can be a little less
trying for the man, who gets off way before the woman ever
really got started. Many couples, that wants to save intercourse
for marriage, use masturbation and oral sex as a means to
satisfy them selves without all the mess of intercourse getting
in the way. Couples are able to explore each other and learn how
to fantasize in very creative ways. This form of outercourse
(everything that is sexual and pleasurable without the
intercourse) is a great means of achieving sexual pleasures
without having intercourse.