The Heart and Soul of Masturbation

Masturbation is defined as any kind of sexual stimulation that does not include intercourse. There are many ways that we humans pleasure ourselves, touching the erogenous zones in a way to enhance sexual feelings and sensations. We make use of our hands, breath, feathers, bondage gear, and yes sex toys, to make masturbation interesting. There is no right and wrong, just the experimentation of exploring your body, and learning what your body likes and dislikes. For most, women have found that they masturbation is their only way to achieve an orgasm, and they rely on this form of stimulation to achieve this sensation. Mutual masturbation, in which couples stimulate each other, is a very rewarding experience for woman especially. They are able to get to there orgasmic place more easily and not have to focus so hard on the intercourse to get her the rest of the way there. If oral sex or masturbation is used before the actual intercourse, the "Wham Bamm Thank You Mam", stereotype can be a little less trying for the man, who gets off way before the woman ever really got started. Many couples, that wants to save intercourse for marriage, use masturbation and oral sex as a means to satisfy them selves without all the mess of intercourse getting in the way. Couples are able to explore each other and learn how to fantasize in very creative ways. This form of outercourse (everything that is sexual and pleasurable without the intercourse) is a great means of achieving sexual pleasures without having intercourse.