Fellatio: To Give and To Recieve

Making love with your partner doesn't always have to end in intercourse. Fellatio can be an alternative to the same old routine, or an added extra to your lovemaking. However, women appetite for fellatio is not as common as it is in men. Especially as women age, their appeal to giving and receiving oral sex lessens. Of course, fellatio draws a straight line down the middle between women who enjoy oral sex and to those who don't. It is more common in men than women. Problems will always arise with couples in regards to fellatio. He does she doesn't, she does he doesn't. A simple fact of the matter is, there is always a genuine reason why he or she doesn't like it. If your partner is reluctant to give or receive oral sex, be respectful and patient. Be supportive, and don't try to make them do something they obviously do not want to do. Listen to their feelings, and offer to give oral sex to your partner in return for noting. Sometimes your willingness to give your partner fellatio will spark their interest in returning the favor. Plus studies show that well educated white women, those who went to college, are more likely to give and receive oral sex, than that of other women. If fellatio is your thing, try to partner up with someone who went to college. Chances are good that the giving will be rewarded with the receiving. Know this, fellatio is an art, and with all art knowledge and practice is the key to being a great artist. Communicate with your partner, and show them that you are here to pleasure them. You want to do everything it takes to please them, and you want to learn about their bodies like they know themselves. Only they know their bodies, and what the like and dislike. So why not use this to your advantage. Knowing your partners likes and dislikes is one of the key ingredients in pleasuring your partner. Some things to think about! Ejaculation in the mouth is not for everyone. Maybe 30% of women like it, the other 70% are either paid to do it in some porn flick, or just don't do it at all. Know your partner before you do the deed. Make sure she is ready for it, so she can make the choice if she wants to or not. It is not for everyone, and if you decide for her, there could be some real complications in your relationship. Do you know your partner? I mean really know your partner. If you don't then you may want to think about this, fellatio is one of the most common ways of transmitting STD's and the AIDS virus. Since blood and semen are the two fluids of the body with the highest concentration of the virus. So if you don't know your partner, then you should consider refraining from oral sex all together, or at least performing it with a condom if you still have the urge to do so. Experiment using various lubricants, and temperature related items like ice or hot tea, while performing oral sex. The different sensations that these items produce can really spice up your oral sex. There are different lubricants that heat up or cool down when you blow on, these produce all kinds of variables when performing oral sex. So be creative and let your imagination run freely. Make your art of fellatio enjoyable for your sex partner, and maybe he will return the favor to you ten fold.