Fellatio: To Give and To Recieve
Making love with your partner doesn't always have to end in
intercourse. Fellatio can be an alternative to the same old
routine, or an added extra to your lovemaking. However, women
appetite for fellatio is not as common as it is in men.
Especially as women age, their appeal to giving and receiving
oral sex lessens. Of course, fellatio draws a straight line down
the middle between women who enjoy oral sex and to those who
don't. It is more common in men than women. Problems will always
arise with couples in regards to fellatio. He does she doesn't,
she does he doesn't. A simple fact of the matter is, there is
always a genuine reason why he or she doesn't like it. If your
partner is reluctant to give or receive oral sex, be respectful
and patient. Be supportive, and don't try to make them do
something they obviously do not want to do. Listen to their
feelings, and offer to give oral sex to your partner in return
for noting. Sometimes your willingness to give your partner
fellatio will spark their interest in returning the favor. Plus
studies show that well educated white women, those who went to
college, are more likely to give and receive oral sex, than that
of other women. If fellatio is your thing, try to partner up
with someone who went to college. Chances are good that the
giving will be rewarded with the receiving.
Know this, fellatio is an art, and with all art knowledge and
practice is the key to being a great artist. Communicate with
your partner, and show them that you are here to pleasure them.
You want to do everything it takes to please them, and you want
to learn about their bodies like they know themselves. Only they
know their bodies, and what the like and dislike. So why not use
this to your advantage. Knowing your partners likes and dislikes
is one of the key ingredients in pleasuring your partner. Some
things to think about! Ejaculation in the mouth is not for
everyone. Maybe 30% of women like it, the other 70% are either
paid to do it in some porn flick, or just don't do it at all.
Know your partner before you do the deed. Make sure she is ready
for it, so she can make the choice if she wants to or not. It is
not for everyone, and if you decide for her, there could be some
real complications in your relationship.
Do you know your partner? I mean really know your partner. If
you don't then you may want to think about this, fellatio is one
of the most common ways of transmitting STD's and the AIDS
virus. Since blood and semen are the two fluids of the body with
the highest concentration of the virus. So if you don't know
your partner, then you should consider refraining from oral sex
all together, or at least performing it with a condom if you
still have the urge to do so.
Experiment using various lubricants, and temperature related
items like ice or hot tea, while performing oral sex. The
different sensations that these items produce can really spice
up your oral sex. There are different lubricants that heat up or
cool down when you blow on, these produce all kinds of variables
when performing oral sex. So be creative and let your
imagination run freely. Make your art of fellatio enjoyable for
your sex partner, and maybe he will return the favor to you ten
fold.