Sexual Fantasies: Psychological Phenomena
The phrase sexual fantasy is itself explanatory, it reveals the
attitude a person has toward sex. It is a natural, psychological
phenomenon similar to dreaming. How often one get influenced to
have sex and how he gets excited about it. Men and women have
almost the same desires but the means to acquire it are
different. The sexual fantasy of a person comes from within, and
how he maintains it is completely on the individual. We can
better call sexual fantasy as Private thoughts.
The level of desires is different for people. Some are easily
aroused and would like to have sex more; others less. People
also attribute different meanings to sexual thoughts, feelings,
and behavior. But often people get excited by just reading
messages, stories which explain the personal experience of
somebody indulge with their partner, and some might feel excited
only with their partner, and some by watching videos.
Indulging in a sexual fantasy enables us to explore things
internally that we may decide not to act upon. A sexual fantasy
serves as a purpose of exploration; help us to escape out of our
daily frustrations. It can also enhance an intimate
relationship, and can boost up our self confidence. The fantasy
is considered as our powerful imagination, which most of the
times give pleasure.
It depends on what you do with them! Fantasies do not belong to
the physical world; they live in the realm of thoughts. They can
be shared or remain alone. Actually men