Relationship Coaches Offer Expert Advice on How to Decide Whether to Stay In or Leave a Relationship

Webster's Dictionary calls a relationship "a romantic or passionate attachment." If you're in one, you might think that you've found heaven on earth. Or maybe something that's not quite so grand, just OK or so-so. Or possibly something far worse if your relationship is starting to seem more like hell on earth than heaven. In fact, things may seem so bad to you that you've started thinking seriously about leaving a relationship. And if you're married this could mean getting a divorce. Many of us have found ourselves in a similar situation and have suffered great anguish while trying to decide what to do -- stay in a relationship or leave it. Well, the husband and wife Relationship Coach team of Susie and Otto Collins, who are also top-selling authors, are urging that before you take the next, maybe fateful step regarding your relationship, that you stop long enough to learn how to make the best possible decision about whether to stay or go. Susie and Otto say that while they have a great relationship with one another now, that wasn't always the case. But they want you to basically 'go to school on them' by learning from and benefiting from the relationship journey they made together. While there most certainly have been others who have overcome the low points in a relationship and made what eventually became a successful journey together, not many of them have been able to recount it in writing in such clear and compelling fashion as have Susie and Otto Collins in their top-selling book "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" which is available in both traditional print form as well as a downloadable e-book version. Susie and Otto assert that their book "will take you through a powerful process of discovery about yourself, your partner and your relationship" and that "by going through this process, the decision about what's best for you actually reveals itself to you." They claim their book will: -- Help you know whether you really want to stay in this relationship or move on -- Help you discover what you really want in a relationship and whether you'll be able to have it in this relationship -- Help you identify the real issues going on in this relationship (they may not be what you think) -- Help you understand the communication challenges going on between the two of you -- Show you how the way money is handled in your relationship may be causing major problems without you even knowing it -- Tell you what to do if there's physical, emotional or sexual abuse going on in this relationship -- Give you a new way of thinking about how addictions affect your relationship -- Help you identify how patterns from your past may be unconsciously ruining your relationship right before your eyes Susie and Otto offer the above in an "action book" format "filled with hundreds of questions, stories and insights that will help you consciously determine whether to stay in your present relationship or to move on." Naturally you'll have to judge for yourself the value of the information presented by Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto Collins, and whether their book "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" truly can help you make such an important decision as how to know WHEN or IF it's time to break up, leave your relationship or get a divorce. But since so much may be at stake, it might very well be worth a few minutes of your time to check things out further. If you'd like more information about the book "Should You Stay or Should You Go," you can find it at: http://www.firstworld.biz/external73.html (Note: if the above URL address isn't displaying as an active, clickable link, please copy the URL and paste it into the address bar of your web browser.) Copyright 2005 Terry Mansfield. All rights reserved. Note: Anyone may publish this free content article online or in print as long as the entire contents of the article and accompanying resource box, including any hyperlinks, are left unaltered, and the byline is included. This article should not be used in anything that could be considered spam.