Relationship Coaches Offer Expert Advice on How to Decide
Whether to Stay In or Leave a Relationship
Webster's Dictionary calls a relationship "a romantic or
passionate attachment." If you're in one, you might think that
you've found heaven on earth. Or maybe something that's not
quite so grand, just OK or so-so. Or possibly something far
worse if your relationship is starting to seem more like hell on
earth than heaven. In fact, things may seem so bad to you that
you've started thinking seriously about leaving a relationship.
And if you're married this could mean getting a divorce. Many of
us have found ourselves in a similar situation and have suffered
great anguish while trying to decide what to do -- stay in a
relationship or leave it.
Well, the husband and wife Relationship Coach team of Susie and
Otto Collins, who are also top-selling authors, are urging that
before you take the next, maybe fateful step regarding your
relationship, that you stop long enough to learn how to make the
best possible decision about whether to stay or go. Susie and
Otto say that while they have a great relationship with one
another now, that wasn't always the case. But they want you to
basically 'go to school on them' by learning from and benefiting
from the relationship journey they made together. While there
most certainly have been others who have overcome the low points
in a relationship and made what eventually became a successful
journey together, not many of them have been able to recount it
in writing in such clear and compelling fashion as have Susie
and Otto Collins in their top-selling book "Should You Stay or
Should You Go?" which is available in both traditional print
form as well as a downloadable e-book version.
Susie and Otto assert that their book "will take you through a
powerful process of discovery about yourself, your partner and
your relationship" and that "by going through this process, the
decision about what's best for you actually reveals itself to
you." They claim their book will:
-- Help you know whether you really want to stay in this
relationship or move on
-- Help you discover what you really want in a relationship and
whether you'll be able to have it in this relationship
-- Help you identify the real issues going on in this
relationship (they may not be what you think)
-- Help you understand the communication challenges going on
between the two of you
-- Show you how the way money is handled in your relationship
may be causing major problems without you even knowing it
-- Tell you what to do if there's physical, emotional or sexual
abuse going on in this relationship
-- Give you a new way of thinking about how addictions affect
your relationship
-- Help you identify how patterns from your past may be
unconsciously ruining your relationship right before your eyes
Susie and Otto offer the above in an "action book" format
"filled with hundreds of questions, stories and insights that
will help you consciously determine whether to stay in your
present relationship or to move on."
Naturally you'll have to judge for yourself the value of the
information presented by Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto
Collins, and whether their book "Should You Stay or Should You
Go?" truly can help you make such an important decision as how
to know WHEN or IF it's time to break up, leave your
relationship or get a divorce. But since so much may be at
stake, it might very well be worth a few minutes of your time to
check things out further. If you'd like more information about
the book "Should You Stay or Should You Go," you can find it at:
http://www.firstworld.biz/external73.html
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