How To Quickly Turn Platonic Friends into Lovers Using The New
5-Step Jealousy Technique
I'm going to get straight to the point. If you want to exit the
platonic zone, you need to focus on two things.
Number one, it can be done. And number two, you must make her
jealous. Making a woman jealous is an art. It is one of the
quickest and easiest ways to build instant sexual value. If you
have any moral hold ups or any mental roadblocks that will
prevent you from making her jealous, then continue to listen to
the girl of your dreams yap about some other guy that makes her
horny. No self-respecting man should allow such emasculating
events to occur, but for some reason it happens all the time.
Making someone jealous is one of the quickest ways to establish
your sexual value. I can not stress that enough. In the platonic
situation, she is use to you showing her some level of romantic
attention. And if you don't think she has an idea that you are
interested in her, then chances are you are wrong. Here's the
good part about this one-sided attraction. Even if she doesn't
initially see you as a potential romantic interest, she has no
choice but to receive and experience the pleasurable feelings
associated with your attraction to her (whether it is obvious or
not obvious).
So naturally when you begin to show her that you are now
interested in another girl (making her jealous), you end up
cutting off her source of pleasurable feelings. She will
experience what I refer to as an "unexplainable emptiness" or an
unconscious attraction, which means she will feel drawn to you
below her natural level of awareness.
The key is to be effective at this whole process.
And this isn't something that is slick or jazzy. You don't have
to put on a silvery button-up shirt or practice endless
comb-twirls to make this work. Her reaction is natural. And you
are simply benefiting by having an understanding of how women
respond when placed in a certain psychological environment. And
it is this specific understanding that will give you a
psychological advantage.
If you succeed at this easy task, she will be drawn to you on a
level that she can't quite explain. People watching the whole
thing play out won't know what the hell happened. And you can
just giggle to yourself and say: "An unconscious attraction will
always be more powerful than a conscious attraction."
And it is true. It is the reason why people don't stay on diets.
Their deep down (unconscious) desire to keep eating twinkies is
more powerful than the (conscious) desire to eat right.
Once you succeed at making this platonic friend jealous (and you
learn how in a second) just calmly smile to yourself. Just take
a deep breath and relax. Do not jump up and down as if you hit a
game-ending homerun in the bottom of the ninth. Do not outwardly
react as if you created a loophole in the universal code. She is
designed to respond romantically when in the presence of man who
sends the right signals.
It's real simple. If you act a certain way she will desire you
sexually.
If you are attracted to a female friend, then this is important
to you because the reality is this.
Females love to talk sexually about other guys to their male
friends as if he is one of their girlfriends. Not only is this a
fact, it's an indication that you have zero sexual value in the
eyes of your female friend.
Here is the deal. If you are listening or passively accepting
the emasculating (balls-removing) act of being radiated by her
lusting over another guy, then things are much worse than you
think. Many times a woman will say to their male platonic
friends "I think he might be good in the sac!" with wide-eyed
excitement as if you care.
Many girl's treat their platonic friend's like they are girls.
I'm not sure why it works this way, but if you have no sexual
value with a particular female, you almost assume the "energy of
a female" by default. If you want this female friend, it should
offend you when she yaps to you about another guy.
Let's talk about how to reverse this process. Chances are you
are a perfectly straight male that loves women. You just want to
figure out if it possible to get this special female attracted
to you.
The truth is it is possible. In fact is happens all the time and
it happens quite naturally. It is not a strange event when a
girl develops a "sudden interest" for a male friend shortly
after he has moved on with his life after years of endless
pursuing. It's also quite common for her to even "aggressively
pursue" him as soon as he enters into a loving relationship. Now
all of a sudden she wants him.
While it may be easy to label her as evil, the truth is she is
simply responding in a very predictable way as a result of being
placed in a certain psychological environment. And any rate,
let's discuss how you can purposely bring out this "sudden
interest" in a girl.
Because from this point on you are going to be prepared.
The first step is very critical. If you do it the right way, you
will feel the momentum switch back your way. In addition to that
you end up initiating the process of having her experience a
loss of pleasurable feelings as you place your attention (what
she craves) in another direction.
Women will always love attention. This is going to be your first
"momentum tool".
On an execution level, here is what you do. The next time she
does her sexual yapping (or anything that reveals that you have
no sexual value), just remain calm. You don't have to
externalize your emotions. You will be more successful if you
just calmly let her speak. Let her get it out of her system. And
when it feels like it's your turn to talk, you can calmly
introduce your story.
It is a special way of making her jealous.
STEP 1: Make sure when you mention this other girl it flows
naturally in the conversation. You don't want her to think
(know) that you have an agenda. You can say something like "Oh
yeah, that reminds me, there's this new girl that moved in down
the street..." and then smoothly deliver you story.
STEP 2: Build up the value of the girl in this story. Make her
incredible. If the girl isn't special, than your story isn't
going to have the right affect on her. You have to let her know
that this girl is slightly better. Basically, you are going to
put her in a competition that she didn't sign up for. And
because all women want the attention to be on them she'll be
literally forced into a competitive mindstate. It's ok to laugh.
Remember, to her you are innoscently recalling a past
event/experience with another female or you are telling her
about a "new girl" that you just discovered. You are just
sharing your joy. Give the friend specific reasons why the
"special girl" is better than most females (her). Talk about her
breasts, her butt, her personality, her eyes, her amazing smile,
anything. Pretend that it is your mission to get the friend to
say to herself "Ok, that's enough! I want you to talk about me!"
The good thing about this step is that you don't have to wonder
whether it will work. I'm going to assume that you know that
this will happen eventually if you do it the right way.
STEP 3: Repeat Step 2. It is a must that you do this way past
the point where she begins to want you to start talking about
her. You got to make her feel uncomfortable. And you must extend
this discomfort for awhile. Jealousy always involves discomfort.
If you ever been jealous over a girl, you know that it always
increases your attention (magnifies your focus) on the girl you
were jealous over.
You may not realized it, but is also increased your attraction
to her. Most women are natural experts at doing this.
STEP 4: If your particular story allows for it, make sure there
is an event where a bunch of guys are admiring this special
girl. For example: "This new girl moved in my neighbor
yesterday. She gets out of her car and three guys stopped what
they were doing and just starting staring at her with their
tongues hanging out of their mouths. It was like she was walking
in slow motion..." You want her to say to herself "She must be
super hot. All the guys want her" Also, women get in competitive
mode very easily when they see a woman sucking up all of the
guys' attention.
STEP 5: Make this step as believable as possible. So far you
have built up the value of this super awesome girl that all the
guys want. Now you must show that this girl is attracted to you
on some level - even if it appears that you are not aware of it.
For example: "It was like she was walking in slow motion. Then
she introduced herself to me. I was a little shocked because
most hot girls are stuck up. She was very friendly. She then
tells me that I reminded her of an ex boyfriend and she starts
looking at me weird. I'm not sure if that was good or bad." As
you can see this step is all about sending the message that this
girl digs you. It is not about sending the message that you have
everything figured out.
That's it. Don't expect her to instantly rip her clothes off and
give you a blow job. Just be confident that you sent her a set
of powerful messages and leave it at that.
And now let's say that these 5 Steps equal a "session".
Your goal is to have as many sessions as possible. It doesn't
have to be all in one day. You can spread them out over the
course of a few weeks. Your goal is to get her to look at you
differently.
So all you are going to look for in the beginning is "something"
that makes you go "Aha! It's working!"
You do not have to worry about what it is specifically. Once you
see that "something" you will know. Here is an analogy that
illustrates the power of this easy-to-do technique. It
illustrates the two phases.
Imagine being in an empty white room with your female friend.
The two of you are standing up facing each other talking about
whatever. Periodically, you let her know that you are interested
in her and each time she smiles and says "I'm flattered, but no
thanks".
Time goes on and now the two of you have been in this room for
about 30 straight hours! And about 20-40 times she has smiled
and rejected you.
On the 31st hour 4 super hot women (feel free to think of your
favorite celebrities) walk in and start immediately kissing and
grabbing all over you. They ignore your female friend and they
are very much sexually into you. It is almost as if each of them
are focused on being pleased by you in some way. This goes on
for about 5 minutes and then they leave. You are blown away and
can't believe what just happened. Two hours later, they come
back in and this time they step it up a notch. They are literaly
doing everything imaginable to you. You name it, they are doing
it. All in front of your female friend who is looking very
uncomfortable as it this goes on right in front of her face.
Then they leave again. They continue this cycle 6 more times and
each time they step it up a notch. So now you are in the room
with your female friend and 10 more hours have gone by and you
haven't complimented or showed interested in her whatsoever.
Your attention is now on these amazing women and that's all you
are talking about. In fact, the female friend is getting tired
of hearing about them.
It should be easy to see that pretty soon your female friend is
going to not only miss the attention that you use to show her,
but she is going to look at you a little differently. This
analogy represents the ideal impact that you want to have on
your female friend with your story.
In order to get her, she has to look at you differently. Again,
this is something that happens all of the time when guys get
tired of chasing the girl or they get a girlfriend and suddenly
the female friend changes her mind.
Females change their minds all the time. They're great at it and
to be honest they really do need our help. The entire event of
converting her into a girl that sees you as sexually valuable in
this example features two phases:
The first phase is the flattery phase. You probably has already
executed this. And maybe you still are. This is the process of
one-sided attraction.
The good news, is that you have already done some of the work
because remember:
"Even if she doesn't see you initially as a potential romantic
interest, she has no choice but to receive and experience the
pleasurable feelings associated with the interest that you show
her (whether it is obvious or not obvious)."
All you have to do is complete the second phase (the 5 steps) to
make her jealous.
The reality is when you tell a story, or watch a movie you have
no choice but to place yourself intimately in that story. You
become one of the characters. As the movie goes on, your eyes
will water. Your heart will pound. You will sweat. When in
reality the movie was not real, yet you experienced real
biological and psychological reactions as if you were living the
scenes in the movie.
By the way, this is 100% fun to do.
When you tell your story she will unknowingly identify (or
compete) with the female! So obviously your jealousy-inducing
story should make you appear like the man. If you know any
"other powerful signals" that women respond to, now is the time
to send them in your story.
Make sure the woman in your story is sexually admiring you and
you are sexually admiring that female. This creates a two-prong
attack. And make sure she is interested and tuned in to your
story. Good luck.
One last thing. Make sure you look for that something (a change
in how she sees you) that makes you go:
"Aha! It's working".
This will let you know if you were successful at capturing her
attention, painting the story in her mind, making her
uncomfortably jealous/competitive and showing her that the hot
girl is attracted to you in some way.