The Deep Spot - Guaranteed To Give Her A Vaginal Orgasm
Back in '93, I was dating a 22 year old woman who had never had
an orgasm. She did have one long term boyfriend, so I knew that
intercourse or oral would not do the trick. So I just took my
time finding what would feel good for her. With my middle finger
I searched for her "g" spot, but received no response. Then I
decided to slide my finger in as far along the front wall of her
vagina as I could. At its greatest depth, the inner diameter of
the vagina increases. This area is no longer spongy, but instead
smooth and firm, with slight horizontal ribbing. I curled the
tip of my finger in a "come hither" manner, while pressing hard
against the ribbing and slightly pulling down. She immediately
responded to this. After continuing this for a few minutes, she
had a concerned look on her face. Then the most wonderful thing
happened. I watched the face of this beautiful woman while, for
the first time in her life, she had an orgasm. That was sweet.
She then breathlessly said "David, kiss me!" Eventually she was
able to orgasm readily in any manner.
According to Gray's Anatomy, this area is called the "cavity of
the cervix." This area is shaped like the underside of a
Frisbee, with the cervix in the center pointing downward.
Imagine the way you hold a Frisbee. Your fingertips touch the
inside edge of the Frisbee. Curl the tip of your finger down the
inside edge of the Frisbee in a "come hither" manner.
Later I was seeing a woman who had only had orgasms with the aid
of continual direct clitoral stimulation. Basically, she had
only had clitoral orgasms. I used the deep spot on her, and
within a few minutes she exclaimed: "Oh David, I'm gonna come! I
have NEVER come this way! Oh, I'm gonna COME!" and she did, her
very first vaginal orgasm. After a few evenings of awakening her
vagina (by stimulating less of the deep spot and more of the
wall of the vagina) she was able to readily orgasm in
intercourse.
Because the uterus is slightly tilted towards the front, the
cavity of the cervix is also slightly tilted. The Frisbee is
lower in the front and higher in the back. The entire inside
edge of the Frisbee, all the way around, is sensitive.
Another variation to this is to get her on her hands and knees
and go in along the back wall of her vagina. Go in as deep as
possible. Along the back it is deeper because the Frisbee is
tilted. Curl the tip of your finger as if to press hard against
her tail bone. Repeat. To her it will feel as if she is getting
butt fucked. Some women find this very exciting and will
experience a very powerful orgasm. I did this to one woman as
she held the bathroom sink. When she was coming I thought she
was going to rip the sink right off the wall. After she caught
her breath, and checked for broken finger nails, she told me
that she just had the most powerful orgasm of her life. "That
was the grand daddy of 'em all!"
When you massage the deep spot, do it firmly. As you massage the
back of the deep spot, you are simulating the "ballooning" that
occurs in this area at the time of her orgasm. As you massage
any area of the deep spot, you are simulating the muscle
contractions that occur at the time of her orgasm to dilate the
cervix. She can't HELP but come!
The deep spot has one important benefit over the clitoris. The
problem with the clitoris is that after a few seconds of an
orgasm, it becomes so painfully sensitive that it cannot be
further stimulated. The deep spot does not have this problem.
The deep spot is one way to give a woman a very sustained
orgasm. Besides, these natural muscle contractions continue to
occur for some time after an orgasm anyway.
Another alternative to this is to let her lie face up. Use two
fingers, your index finger and your middle finger. Keep the tips
of your two fingers about an inch apart as you rub firmly
against the front of her deep spot.
I did some research and found that Chee Ann Chua, a Malaysian
marriage counselor, published a paper called the "a-spot" in
1997 in "The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy."
The text basically says: "The Anterior Fornix of the vagina is
located on the front wall of the vagina just below the cervix.
It is about 3/4 of an inch to 1 1/2 inches long. Its borders are
not well defined. The texture is smooth, unlike the G-Spot. If
you place the tip of your finger over the cervix, and move it
down a bit, staying on the front wall, your fingertip will be on
the anterior fornix. Stimulate in a circular motion. If you move
down too far, you will feel the texture change. That will mean
that your finger tip is no longer in the right place."
This is the front of "the deep spot." But, as I said above, the
deep spot is sensitive all the way around, and, it should be
stroked by bending the tip of the finger in a "come hither"
fashion while at the same time pulling down.
But the most powerful way to stimulate the vagina is at the back
of the deep spot. Get the tip of your middle finger way in deep
along the back of the vagina. Stroke against the back of the
vagina in a 'come hither' manner. When she gets really excited,
the deep back of the vagina will begin to pocket. Press the tip
of your middle finger against the back of the pocket, and with
the pad of your finger, press down on the PC muscle, which will
be contracting so hard that it will feel like it is going to
break your finger. But drive on hard. It will drive her crazy.
So, I enlisted my willing love lab subject (my girlfriend) and I
set out to rate the various "spots." Here are the actual
anecdotal findings of the experiment in increasing order of
efficacy:
g-spot "good" a-spot with circular stimulation "MUCH better"
front of deep spot with come hither stroking "Oh Yes" back of
deep spot with come hither stroking "OH God" back of deep spot
with long and forceful stroking "OH DAVID"
David Shade http://www.Masterful-Lover.com