Anal Sex part-3
This is part-3 of this series called Anal Sex
After Insertion After insertion, give a luxurious amount of time
in becoming used to it. Let him worry about what to do, and you
just pay attention to the warmth. Let him worry about what to
do, and you just pay attention to the warmth and sensuality of
it. Try masturbating, this is a regular part of intercourse, and
may surprise you with its intensity. The easiest thing to do is
rotate your rear in a circular way, as he thrusts. A tricky and
subtle thing is to learn how to squeeze your anus, tight and
loose, to fondle his penis more and start vibrating, glowing
ripples up and down your rectum. You'll know if you're moving in
good ways, because you'll feel a rhythmic flow inside and out.
You'll begin to forget where you are, as your movements melt
into his ass. Postillioning Postillioning is inserting a
finger(s) into the anus, and may include massaging it and the
rectum. At its extreme, this can become fist fucking, which is
insertion of the whole hand. I've already mentioned
postillioning as a pleasant addition to the sex act, and also as
a good preparation for anal intercourse. Here I'd like to
explain in more detail how to do it, and things to watch out
for. The index or middle finger is best used, being long and
strong. The finger must be well lubricated with spit or oil or
lubricant (don't use any thing with soap, as this will upset the
rectal eco-system), and then placed at the anal opening. The
outside can be caressed in circles and mild probes. This is
usually a very warm experience and helps relax the area. Make
insertion by pressing gently and firmly inwards, wobbling the
tip of your finger a little as necessary. On the one hand, your
finger won't go in at all if the ass is as tight as it can be.
On the other, if the anus is completely relaxed the finger will
slide in with hardly any effort. Postillioning is a great way to
help someone explore their rear and learn to loosen the anus
opening. Insertion is helped if the woman pushes lightly out as
if going to the bathroom. You probably won't find anything
inside the rectum, and whatever you do find will be harmless. If
you must have her absolutely clean inside she can douche with an
enema bottle and warm water. Finger Insertion Once inside,
you'll feel the thick, strong, muscular ring which is the anus,
and beyond it the soft sides of the rectum. Keep at least your
fingertip beyond the anus, or contraction of the muscle will
cause the finger to pop out again. Once your finger is inside,
you can explore around, pushing it in as far as it'll go,
curling it around the anus, flicking it back and forth. If you
insert two fingers you can push them apart inside as a way to
stretch and loosen the anus. Just having the finger(s)
positioned inside while sucking on her clit or fingering her
pussy can be quite delightful. Sliding them up and down in her
ass at orgasm can double or quadruple the intensity of the
orgasm. When it's time to finish, just pull the finger out
gradually, pushing down towards the legs with the finger(s)
while drawing the hand up towards the head. Being postillioned
is another way to open up to new experiences. You may be nervous
at first, from the newness of it, it may not seem pleasurable at
all. Since your anus/rectum is used to nothing but excrement
inside, a finger may cause you to feel like going to the
bathroom. This is to be expected at first, and will disappear as
you relax and get used to it. It's also easier if you're
sexually excited. Keep in mind that the finger can't harm you
unless it has a sharp nail or pokes violently. Analingus It is
also called "rimming" and it is another way to explore the rear
end. It involves licking, tonguing, and sucking the anus. This
might seem like a strange thing to do, because asses are
supposed to be dirty and bad. Actually, they're not. Although
it's possible to catch VD or hepatitis from an infected person,
fears of rimming are mainly esthetic, that is, related to smell,
taste, and personal preference. As with postillioning and anal
intercourse, you can always douche beforehand, eliminating any
odors. Because the anus opening is so delicately sensitive, and
the lips and tongue so warmly expressive, rimming is enjoyed by
many people. It's also an easy thing to do, in any position
where the buttocks can be drawn far enough apart to admit the
tongue. Analingus is nice as part of Around the World, kissing
and tonguing the body all over. You can lick across the anus in
soft, wet strokes, or encircle it, going round and around
languorously. You can flick the tongue-tip rapidly, or insert it
inside as far as it'll go, pushing and stroking back and forth.
You can brush the lips gently over the spot, or suck hard on the
anus, as if trying to draw it out. This is especially nice if
combined with tongue insertion. If, while you're being rimmed,
you push down and relax the anus as if shitting, it will expand
a little outwards, giving more area to caress and even nibble
at. It's also nice to combine analingus with tonguing and
sucking at her clit. In fact, the whole area between the legs,
since it's so protected, is soft and sensitive to touching and
warmth. Positions Here's one of the basic positions that you can
use. Ladies, you need to kneel on your elbows and knees,
relaxing your ass such that your body wants to take in your
man's erect penis. He kneels directly behind your ass, facing
your way. He bends over you, guiding his lubricated penis to
your anus opening, and then gently pushes it inside as you draw
it in. Then he causes his penis to slide up and down inside by
thrusting his hips back and forth, while you keep still or
rotate your hips in a side-to-side motion. The advantages to
this position are easy and fairly deep entry, and freedom of
movement. The full front position. The woman lies on her back,
drawing her knees up to her chest and over the shoulders of the
man, who presses down on her face to face. (a pillow can be put
under the pelvis to raise it even higher, or the man can push
the woman's feet over her head). This position allows for easy
penetration and very deep entry. Another favorite position is a
standing one, in which both the man and the woman stand up,
facing the same way, and the woman bends over at the waist,
using a wall, table, or other support. This can also be done on
the knees rather than the feet, say, at the edge of the bed.
When both partners are not of the same height at the waist, some
adjustment will have to be made. This position is convenient to
use outdoors. It allows easy penetration and full movement if
there is something solid around to hang onto. Try having the
woman lie flat on her stomach (hips raised a little on a pillow
if you like). This allows her to relax more and her hands are
free to do whatever. The man lies on top and thus can also be
more relaxed and have free hands. Penetration using this method
is not as easy and you are not able to thrust as deeply. The
woman is rather restricted in her movements using this position.
>From the above position, both partners can roll over on their
sides, still facing the same way, with one leg drawn up. This
position allows bodily relaxation plus free hands to explore and
caress. Entry is easy and fairly deep with this position.
Movement is somewhat limited, though vigorous thrusting is still
easy once you get used to the posture. Another variation of the
above position is to have both partners lying on their sides
facing each other. Here the man must extend his pelvis between
the woman's bent legs. This position allows deep entry, and
hands and mouths are free. Movement is fairly easy once
insertion is made. And last but not least, my personal favorite.
This position is great in that it allows the woman to control
the speed and depth of penetration. Have the man lay flat on his
back on the bed, the woman then straddles him and slides her ass
back to meet his hard penis. Penetration is easy in this
position and entry can be deep. His hands are free to caress her
breasts or even slide down to massage her clit while she slides
up and down on his penis. These are the basic positions. There
are many other variations possible. Each is different and you
may find that certain ones really work well for you and your
partner but others don't. Experiment with your partner to find
what works best for you. Enjoy!
This is part-3 of this series called Anal Sex
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