Anal Sex part-1
Introduction Anal sex can be a safe and enjoyable form of
sexual activity for many couples if the proper preparation is
taken. Without care it can be painful and even dangerous. All
too often anal sex is a one time experience. In a typical
scenario, the couple attempts to try penetration with little
preparation. The one whose anus is being invaded with little
warning screams in shock and agony and ends up throwing herself
away from the offending member and hitting her head on the
headboard. Anal sex is never attempted again. Here is how to
avoid that scenario. Anal sex, practiced properly, is as safe as
any other kind of sex and it can be extremely pleasurable. The
anus can be an intensely erogenous zone and the anus contains
more nerve endings than any other part of the body except the
clitoris. It's no wonder that so many people regularly enjoy
anal sex. Anal Eroticism "Anal eroticism" can range from simply
stroking your anus or your partner's with a lubricated finger,
to actually sliding some fingers inside your partner, to full
anal intercourse. All these things are physically very
pleasurable, and if you practice simple hygiene techniques,
there's nothing repulsive about them. The anal taboo is very
old, but there is no necessary medical reason for it if you know
what you're doing. Make sure you've gone to the bathroom before
playing. Some people wish to use an enema to make sure
everything stays neat, although the use of an enema is uncommon.
If your partner is not 100% familiar and safe you should by all
means use a condom. Many couples use one for anal sex regardless
of their knowledge of each other. You should use plenty of water
soluble lubrication when you try anal sex. Never use Vaseline or
any other petroleum based lube. We recommend Ease (it has a
spermacide that is believed to decrease HIV) or astrolube
(although it tends to be a little light. We especially like a
lubricant called WET. It seems to stay around for a while. Use
LOTS of lubricant, it's clean! The more lube you use, the more
comfortable you will be. Preparation Your rectum can receive a
large penis easily and fully, and this can be quite pleasurable,
if you want it. And you must want it, before it can happen. That
is, you must be at ease, in mind and body. The rectum is similar
to a very elastic pipe with a set of muscular rings at the end,
the anus. The anus acts as a plug, to stop things from going
out, or let them in. It tightens and relaxes like purse strings
on a bag, and is fairly strong. This muscle is controlled by the
mind, and emotions influence how tense it will be at any given
time. Good fucking can't happen unless the anus is relaxed, and
this may take some learning. Many of us are taught to be ashamed
of our rear ends, of the things that happen there, and the
sensations of this area. The anus can be an erotic place, most
children experience pleasure in shitting, but many adults ignore
these feelings, in their rush to get he act over with as little
guilt as possible. The rear end becomes an ignored and
mysterious place. The anus is usually held tight, and becomes
the site of problems like hemorrhoids. Yet the feelings are
still there. Awareness and conscious control of the anus can be
learned, although this takes time to discover. Look at it as
exploring something new, part of your own body. Exploring Your
Ass The first thing is, how do you feel about your anus and
rectum? Are they a part of you, or do you emotionally push them
away? If you feel bad about your ass, that it's a dirty place,
this is where your explorations must begin. Explore your anus,
to discover how it feels and that it's not dirty, that you can
touch it and not get hurt. You can do this in two ways: by
yourself or with your partner. In exploring yourself you have
control over you actions. Climb into a tub of hot water (or a
shower or lay on your bed) and relax. Then with your fingertips
explore your pussy and thighs, gliding around to feel what it's
like. Then bend your legs and slide your fingers down between
them, sliding them along the crack that runs from your pussy to
your anus. Touch your anus very lightly with one finger. Then
try with several fingers pushing down a little - how does it
feel? If you like that, try masturbating while pressing several
fingers on your ass.
This is part-1 of this series called Anal Sex
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