Sex is a serious thing!
Most of the questions asked to sexual health experts are about
men's early ejaculations and women's orgasm troubles. When you
read this you may say: It's normal, if man is coming off
quickly, woman couldn't have an orgasm! But if you really think
for a few seconds, surprisingly, you won't see any relation
between these two events. Because, a man if he is not a boor,
will prepare his woman to reach her orgasm before his
ejaculation. The other highly popular question is about the
penis size! After all that porn movies many people are really
confused. How and where to find such a prominent organ? What is
the normal size? How thick and long can be the biggest? How
small is acceptable for lovemaking? Every man's genital is
different as his finger print and the role of the penis size in
a happy and successful sexual relationship is not such
important. At least you don't have to be such stupid to pay sack
full money to programs, drugs or advice for making it bigger!
Even with a huge organ a man's chance is very limited to make
her achieve an orgasm if he is not a good lover and doesn't know
proper sex techniques, most probably he will cause pain instead
of pleasure. Even a man who has a miniscule dick may be a
perfect lover! The only way is to learn how to make better love,
how to be a better partner, instead of being paranoiacly
distressed. This is normal and this is your body, love it and
try to use it more creatively and with more love. Kiss and
caress every part of your partner's body for long time, arouse
her enough, and go down and give her a nice oral love... until
she reaches the climax. Believe me, every woman loves and
prefers such a talented lover in the place of a big dick
entering a few times into your vagina before spurting out and
then sleeping in his side as nothing happened! Naturally! Having
a small organ is not a guilt, a crime, if he knows his body and
has developed many better solutions he is absolutely a CLEVER
man and a perfect lover! In regard to early ejaculations...
This, also, is not a crime and if the man has not an organic
disorder, may be corrected with some effort. But many men,
instead of paying attention to their situation, act like early
coming off doesn't make any difference in their sex life! Which
may be true! Actually you may consider the natural disharmony
between two genders. Men, by their nature, want to thrust into a
hole when aroused and squirt in, that's all! But woman needs a
prior preparation, a foreplay of at least 10-15 minutes to be
concentrated and ready for insertion. One woman likes this
position, another may choose that position, many women request
clitoris stimulation besides men's thrusting... Many fatiguing
services asked from men! And furthermore, if a serious and
passionate relationship doesn't exist between partners, men are
really exhausted in the bed. Is a natural error, an innate lack
of harmony exists between men and women? Let see some different
type of early comers: Type A: The worst. He doesn't even know he
is an early comer. When he likes, he takes the woman under him
and ejaculates. He doesn't care anything else! For the woman's
orgasm? What is that? He hasn't heard anything about woman's
orgasm! Type B: He knows about woman's orgasm but act like he
doesn't know. Same of the Type A, he pulls the woman under and
he comes off, the only difference, if by mistake or pain, woman
makes a weak sound like "ah" he will suppose she reached an
orgasm but for his comfort, he will never ask her the truth!
Type C: He knows his disorder, he is sad and wants to visit a
doctor but he is shamed or can't find the time to go! As a
foreplay he kiss and caress her a little but he can't wait and
comes off. Sometimes he can't even find times to thrust his dick
into her. He is sad but life goes on! Type D: He is aware of his
early ejaculation disorder but he also knows his partner's
orgasm right! So, he will kiss and caress her at great length,
give her a great oral love and bring her to an orgasm. Then
start to make love for himself and he comes off. Because his
partner reached orgasm before his quick ejaculation there is no
trouble. Partners are relaxed and happy! That means, if a man is
understanding and clever the early ejaculation is not an
important obstacle on the way of a happy sexual relationship.
Man may visit a doctor and try to find the main reason behind
this disorder and get a treatment which is totally normal, but
meantime he is kind and not selfish, gives her ultimate
pleasures to reach her orgasm. An absolutely good sex for a
woman is a normal dick size, a foreplay at length, long kisses
and caresses, staying inside her long enough with many
thrusting, knowing her favorite positions and giving her the
best pleasures... not insisting on what he wants, but
understanding her and giving her what she needs to get her
climax. Please remember that if she has reached to one orgasm in
her entire life, she knows the best position for her, and an
intelligent man never insists on a new position which may cause
a lack of concentration, he will follow her orientations.
Finally, what is the woman's responsibility in creating a
harmonious sexual relationship? Women must talk and describe
what they want clearly. Of course talking to the boors will not
produce a positive result but intelligent men may understand
your needs. Do not imitate orgasm or do not keep silent and
sleep... talk to your lovers and kindly explain your desires, if
not you will lose your sexual desires and even you won't be able
to masturbate and get orgasm by yourself in the future!