G*A*Y or GAY - why is it hard! - ...to talk about?
If your a straight man reading this great, if your a gay man
reading this great, if your a straight women reading this great,
and if your a gay women great too.
When you hear this word, what is your physical reaction? Do you
hide in dear that someone is looking over your should that your
reading about something thats GAY? Will you quickly close this
page and re-open when everyone has gone? If you do, why?
Do straight men actually hate gay men because there wifes or
girlfriends love having a guy around who doesnt fancy the ass
off them? They may not be able to give them what they want
sexually, but gay men give advice and love in manye different
ways and levels that a straight man may not be able to do or
even attempt to do. If you think about it as a straight guy, gay
men like men? Right! So if your liked by men and women wouldnt
that be great! But there is no reason for you to all be hating
the gay community at all.
lesbians are accepted more than gay men, as straight men would
approve of lesbians, most of them anyway. But also straight
women would love to see two men going at it also. Its a curious
thing.
If you could choose, would you be liked by only women, only
men, or both? I would choose both. The word GAY has been around
for years, but recently its been acceptable that the gay
community is being accepted into the world as something that
happens.
Its mainly men who hate the gay men, why is this though? Are
they offended that they are seen as attractive by someone of the
same sex, or are you insulted that they want to have sex with
you?
Women dont just jump all over men, and men dont just jump all
over women, its disresectful, so gay men wont just jump onto
straight men.
So why is the word gay hard to talk about it. Lesbians are
being more and more widely accepted, some music videos are now
at the centre of the whole area of gay. Madonna and Briteny and
Christina kiss, that was excellent, and some may have seen it as
disgusting, its a way to get attention and sell records, thats
why they did it.
You could one day as a straight man, confide in someone who is
gay. They are still only human and deserve love and affection
the same way anybody does.
Admission that some gay men are over the top, when they need
not be, which does irritate nrealy the whole population of the
planet. Marco from Big brother (who shouldnt really get a
mention on here) was a person who hyped it all up. But in the
long run he was seen as a good character, who sometimes was
bitchy!!
So if a straigh heterosexual family has a baby boy, and turned
out to be gay, what would happen, the dad would know and make
the childs life hell??? Maybe not, it wont happen in this day an
age. When they are old enough to decide they want to come out
they will, and at the time they do it will be fine, as all there
friends will give them all the attention and support they need.
Some areas of the world arnt ready for the gay community to
arrive, but it shouldnt be on a time scale at all. If your ready
to come out come out!!! Being afraid is the end of it all.
You've worried about it all that your going to get beaten up,
but people get beaten up over football, hooligans and alcoholic
drinking, its all part of life, and its if your able to stand up
and face the world.
When someone is gay they are hidden away, now they are not
afraid to. Humans, be it gay , black, white, chinese, or any
ethnic origin, we all accept everyone of them - I do!! This
planet isnt just made up of one species of animal, or plant, or
rock, so why do we have to be the same!!! Cause we dont, they
are an abundance of personalities around the globe and the word
G A Y is being highly accepted.
MAN - Chester is a great way to pull forward the ways of the
world. Liverpool is the Capital of Culture, but it would still
be hard for anyone to bring up a child in some areas of the
world!
Straight, gay, bisexual. These are just words, and if you mum
turned out to be a lesbian, she is still your mum, or even your
dad, he might turn out to be gay. If it hasnt happened to you
yet it will, not in terms of everyones family turning gay, but
you will come across someone who is, and you will or will not
find them as your best friend.
Best friends share alot. Gay men and straight women click like
a house on fire. They share girly passions and shopping etc.
If you still feel bad about the word gay then read this again.
Most women say that a gay place is the safest to be, like in gay
clubs there is zero violence and if there is its only over
something like who's dancing better than who - lol.
Typically G*A*Y or GAY - why is it hard! - ...to talk about?
Becuase your unaware!!