Time For A Quickie!!
Technique! We seem to have become obsessed by it! There are
probably thousands of books offering detailed explanations of
ways to make love to your partner. But what about spontaneity?
Where's that gone? What about the pleasures of the impromptu
quickie? You're both horny, there's a raw urgency in the air,
and you need it NOW!
Some women are afraid to let their partner know that they'd like
a quickie. Supposing he misinterprets it and thinks you just
want a quick shag that can be over and done within next to no
time because you can't be bothered with the 'real thing'? The
truth is, if you're horny and lusting for him, wanting a quickie
will just show how much you still fancy him on a physical basis.
You wouldn't feel irked at being desperately wanted by the bloke
you fancy most, would you?
Sex serves many purposes and variation is no bad thing. One
purpose is the reinforcement of that private bond which exists
only between the two of you; something nobody else can share in.
For this reason, having a quickie in a 'forbidden' situation can
actually strengthen the relationship. When everybody is in full
swing at the party, a couple that go outside and urgently make
love have a secret that's theirs alone.
The excitement of being found out is also frequently linked with
quickie sex. Having a quick romp in a semi-public place (such as
behind the garage at the above mentioned party) can be highly
stimulating. The feeling of 'naughtiness' often leads to intense
arousal, culminating in delicious sex that's equally as good as
the sex we'd ordinarily have in our comfortable beds with plenty
of foreplay.
The term 'sex-positions' takes on a whole new meaning with
quickie sex and couples often find themselves in positions that
they'd never have otherwise experimented with. Old pieces of
furniture, a wall, a washing machine or anything else that
happens to be close by comes into its own when no-frills sex is
on the menu.
One or both partners are usually partially dressed, something
which in itself can be very arousing. Being held up against a
wall with one breast outside your bra, your knickers around your
knees and trying not to kick those litter bins for fear of
attracting unwanted attention.... well, it could just as easily
be a fantasy!
There's no right time or place for a quickie. Only your
imagination can limit where and when. If you really want it,
you'll find a place or situation that will be suitable for a
bout of urgent sex. The kitchen table, the garden shed, or even
a toilet seat will do. Just keep one thing in mind - no matter
how desperate you are, it really isn't a good idea to subject
unwitting by-passers to your amorous frolics. There are plenty
of exhibitionists around, but we aren't all voyeurs!
Happy bonking!