Dating Women From Russia. Important Tips The Marriage Agencies
Never Tell You
I want to share with you information that the Russian marriage
agencies don't tell you on their web sites.
Many of the dating agencies tout, how young Russian women are so
family oriented and will make wonderful wives and family
partners. This causes many foreign men to dream about the
perfect family! A family that they have already built up in
their own imagination.
Every man who has seen the Russian dating agency ads and
believes in them completely, has built up in his mind, and has
created his own fantasy, of what a future family with a Russian
women, will be.
If the man's dreams are based on a foundation the marriage
agency has constructed and no on a healthy dose of common sense,
then, most likely the relationship is at great risk of
disappointment and inevitable, failure
.The dating services help bring you together, they do not help
you to stay together ! It is not their job to make your
relationship last, so they don't bother to warn you of the many
pitfalls that can become you and destroy your marriage. What do
you expect of your new Russian bride and what do you really know
about her??
I want to give you an example how you can read into the marriage
agency advertising using a critical eye and common sense.
Try this: Go to any marriage dating agency and following their
procedure to join. Look at Russian women from 21 to 25 years
old.. Pay close attention to what these women have written in
their bio s.. Do you see anything in common??? Of course you
do..it is very obvious ! Ninety percent if not more of these
women have written that they have a bachelor degree. They just
finished or going to finish their educational requirements. Ask
yourself, WHY?
If all the dating agencies are telling you that all Russian
women are very family oriented and in most cases live to serve
their husband and children, why would they spend 10 years in
school and from 4-7 years at the university, getting a degree ?
Why would these young women spend the biggest part of their
young life studying so hard if they are so family oriented ? Why
not, instead, go take domestic courses such as cooking and
sewing and child rearing?
Do these women, who have spent the better part of their young
lives dedicated to getting a higher education, look as women who
are preparing themselves to be housewives and mothers and not
have a professional career???
Yeap...it is look little bit like the opposite ... if not more...
Here is another question: Compared to the United States, how
many children are in the average Russian family?
Is it not unusual to see in the average American family at least
three children. The statistical average is 2.7 children per
family. How you get a 7/10th of child I don t know, but that is
the statistic!
In Russia, to see a family with three children would be quite a
shock, absolutely! It is even unusual to see a Russian family
with two children.
When I just came to USA, I was surprised how many pregnant women
I saw on the streets! In Russia it is very seldom that you will
see a pregnant woman in public. For the last few generations,
Russian couple produce only one child. By the way, it is a very
big problem in Russia.
That each couple produces only one child, does not allow the
population to grow but rather, stagnate. To be honest, it is not
only a problem for Russia, but for all European countries.
Are you wondering why most Russian couples have only one child
if Russian women are so extremely family oriented as the dating
agencies promise you? Why don't they want to have more children?
The reason is not because of a difficult economical situation,
in fact you can see many countries that have much more difficult
economic situations and these poor families have 5-10 children.
In Russia, even wealthy families have only one child.
I can give you many more examples of what the dating agencies
tell you and what you can see on your own.
Be smart enough to learn about the culture of your future wife's
country and about the circumstances that she grew up in, before
you marry her. It can prevent you from making many mistakes and
help you to build a happy family with an Russian woman.