Meeting Women Takes Awareness and Preparation
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"Meeting Women Takes Awareness and Preparation"
-- by Mike Pilinski --
(c) 2003 Kipling Kat Publishing Co. -- All Rights Reserved
http://www.highstatusmale.com
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Want to know a pivotal secret of the mating & dating game? It's
that women plan, practice and prepare for this contest from a
very young age, and (surprise!) are flat-out *contemptuous* of
those men who refuse to play their expected role.
Sad but true. Women put countless hours into prepping for the
competition between the sexes... hair, makeup, style and look,
clothing, etc. etc. They burn half their disposable income on
just about anything they can dream up that makes them more
attractive to men. Guys, on the other hand, typically put
minimal effort into making themselves attractive to women...
other than trying to stay within shouting distance of the latest
clothing trend, I suppose. For the most part, they choose to
spend their time involved in sports or hobbies. That's because
most of us figure attractiveness in men has to do mostly with
good looks and money -- beyond that the workings of the female
mind are totally unfathomable. So why even waste time pondering
it?
Except that this lack of knowledge eventually returns to bite us
square in the ass!
How? When we attempt to PICK UP WOMEN -- *that's* when our utter
cluelessness becomes horribly apparent! Women have been studying
boys since they were teenagers. While we're out playing video
games and practicing our foul shooting -- they're getting
together and debating flirting strategies with their
girlfriends, figuring out how to communicate to all the cute
boys using body language, etc. etc. In other words, they're
actually putting some *effort* into the process! They're
learning how to play the game of seduction from their own unique
female perspective, and they are becoming BETTER at it every day.
Not only does our lack of knowledge put us at a distinct
disadvantage, it acts as a complete TURN-OFF to a lot of women.
This is especially true of women who've REALLY polished their
skills to a high level. They hate guys who try to fake their way
through the meeting and seduction process. And they can smell a
phoney from far across a crowded room, trust me.
Can you see now why you might be having so much trouble
determining what women want from guys? You can't be good at
something that you've put so little effort into becoming
practiced at! There's no shame in lacking any of these skills
either. The Art of Seduction does NOT come naturally to anyone
-- we all must strive to observe women and try to really
understand how they're reacting to our presentation of ourselves
as men. And then comes the hard part... we have to LEARN FROM
THE FEEDBACK (mistakes!) and make the appropriate changes in our
behaviors to get the results we're after.
This is where a lot of guys goof up. Learn ? Change? Blaaah!
Because we're all fundamentally lazy by nature, we just want to
settle as quickly as possible on some kind of "move" that works
for us (at least once in a while) and then just WORK IT TO
DEATH. I guess this beats practicing and modifying our behaviors
based upon what we see, feel and -- well... all that other
friggin' WORK!
Well, this approach might pan out okay guys who have great
natural attractors working for them... a handsome face, great
athletic body, the offbeat "artist's" personality or whatever --
but there's a lot of shy, ordinary men who lack the natural
ability to meet women simply because they failed to develop any
'game'. For *them*, the best route to success lies in learning
how to take on women in their own home court. And where's
that?...
In the deepest recesses of the female subconscious.
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