Selfless Behaviors
A good way to keep the passion alive in a relationship is for
both partners to make a conscious effort to engage in selfless
behaviors. Selfless behaviors are behaviors that are done solely
for the pure satisfaction of the other. Simply because we desire
to give them pleasure and make them happy.
By engaging in selfless behavior it makes the other person feel
important and special. They will feel deeper appreciation for
you. It promotes feelings of closeness and intimacy. More than
likely when you engage in selfless behavior you will end up
receiving a reward, because your partner will be so pleased and
appreciative they will want to reciprocate.
Therefore when both partners do this for one another on a
regular basis it creates a reciprocal circle of passion and
intimacy and keeps the fires burning.
Of course selfless behaviors can and should be in all parts of
the relationship, but for the purpose of this discussion we are
focusing on sexual selfless behaviors.
Some good selfless sexual behaviors to give your man: -place
mirrors around the bedroom so he can see you give him oral or
watch you slide down over his shaft. Most men are voyeurs at
heart. They love to watch. -give him an unexpected quickie (men
love quickies) -give him unexpected oral in an unexpected place
such as in the car or at work (always swallow) -masturbate for
him
Some good selfless sexual behaviors to give your woman: -caress
your woman with words before, during and after sex (with the
right words you can have your woman weak in the knees and full
of desire) -give your woman some special foreplay and afterplay
(women love it when you adore their body) -devote an evening to
being an oral connoisseur for your woman -romance your woman and
remember that how you treat your woman outside the bedroom is
very important as to what will occur in the bedroom.