Penis Size Concerns

I find it deeply disturbing that I see massive amounts of advertisements across the net for penis enlargement. What is most disturbing is the fact that people who desire to make money are preying on one of men's biggest vulnerabilities and fears to simply make money. In addition to that they are promoting an unhealthy, inaccurate perception in our society that having a really big penis is one of the most important factors to sex, relationships and women. This simply is not true. This massive campaign to make money is making men feel inadequate and uncomfortable. It is falsely promoting a view that a big penis is what makes a man desirable. It is setting up an ideal and expectations for men that are really impossible to live up to. The average size of a penis is 5-7 inches, some people are bigger than this, and some people are smaller than this. Whatever you have been born with, that is the way that nature intended it and therefore it is adequate and satisfactory. These continual advertisements are also giving men the inaccurate perception that they must increase their penis size because that is what women want. This is absurd. What is most important to a woman is what kind of lover you are, what kind of person you are and how you treat her. Being unselfish and meeting her needs sexually and emotionally will make you a great lover in her eyes. If you have a penis that 10 inches long and you are selfish or don't know how to meet your woman's needs then your size is completely irrelevant. You do not need a big penis to be an incredible lover and satisfy your woman. Yes, for some women more girth and length do feel incredibly good, but there are many ways to achieve this with her lover. If she does enjoy the feel of more girth and length than you have been endowed with or if you both want to play and experiment then you can always add something such as a dildo, vibrator or even something like a zucchini out of the fridge to give her the added sensation. Doing these things together will enhance the experience for both of you. Using one of these options on her vaginally while stimulating her clitoris orally will give her exquisite pleasure. Adding a variety of positions and being adventurous such as doing it in a new location will also be very pleasurable. You can also purchase a penis ring (cock ring) from most any adult toy store to add to your sexual adventure. The penis ring placed along the base of the penis restricts the flow of blood out of the penis and can increase size and hardness. It can also prolong the erection. Many men find that they experience a more intense pleasurable orgasm with the use of a penis ring But most important to remember is that intercourse is only one way of satisfying a woman. The majority of women cannot orgasm with intercourse alone anyhow regardless of how big your penis is. Pleasuring your woman with your hands and your mouth can be just as satisfying, if not more so, than intercourse. Being attentive to your woman's body and mind will enhance her experience. Making your woman feel, special, cherished, appreciated and desired will make sex great for her. For more tips on how to pleasure your woman read my article Pleasuring Her. http://www.holistichelp.net/sexandsoul/pleasureher.html