Penis Size Concerns
I find it deeply disturbing that I see massive amounts of
advertisements across the net for penis enlargement. What is
most disturbing is the fact that people who desire to make money
are preying on one of men's biggest vulnerabilities and fears to
simply make money. In addition to that they are promoting an
unhealthy, inaccurate perception in our society that having a
really big penis is one of the most important factors to sex,
relationships and women. This simply is not true.
This massive campaign to make money is making men feel
inadequate and uncomfortable. It is falsely promoting a view
that a big penis is what makes a man desirable. It is setting up
an ideal and expectations for men that are really impossible to
live up to. The average size of a penis is 5-7 inches, some
people are bigger than this, and some people are smaller than
this. Whatever you have been born with, that is the way that
nature intended it and therefore it is adequate and
satisfactory.
These continual advertisements are also giving men the
inaccurate perception that they must increase their penis size
because that is what women want. This is absurd. What is most
important to a woman is what kind of lover you are, what kind of
person you are and how you treat her. Being unselfish and
meeting her needs sexually and emotionally will make you a great
lover in her eyes. If you have a penis that 10 inches long and
you are selfish or don't know how to meet your woman's needs
then your size is completely irrelevant. You do not need a big
penis to be an incredible lover and satisfy your woman. Yes, for
some women more girth and length do feel incredibly good, but
there are many ways to achieve this with her lover.
If she does enjoy the feel of more girth and length than you
have been endowed with or if you both want to play and
experiment then you can always add something such as a dildo,
vibrator or even something like a zucchini out of the fridge to
give her the added sensation. Doing these things together will
enhance the experience for both of you. Using one of these
options on her vaginally while stimulating her clitoris orally
will give her exquisite pleasure. Adding a variety of positions
and being adventurous such as doing it in a new location will
also be very pleasurable. You can also purchase a penis ring
(cock ring) from most any adult toy store to add to your sexual
adventure. The penis ring placed along the base of the penis
restricts the flow of blood out of the penis and can increase
size and hardness. It can also prolong the erection. Many men
find that they experience a more intense pleasurable orgasm with
the use of a penis ring
But most important to remember is that intercourse is only one
way of satisfying a woman. The majority of women cannot orgasm
with intercourse alone anyhow regardless of how big your penis
is. Pleasuring your woman with your hands and your mouth can be
just as satisfying, if not more so, than intercourse. Being
attentive to your woman's body and mind will enhance her
experience. Making your woman feel, special, cherished,
appreciated and desired will make sex great for her. For more
tips on how to pleasure your woman read my article Pleasuring
Her. http://www.holistichelp.net/sexandsoul/pleasureher.html