Spicing Up Routine Sexual Activities
One of the biggest complaints among couples is that sex becomes
routine and loses some of the excitement. A good way to prevent
this from happening is to spice up some of your routine
activities. Try some of the following.
While having intercourse stimulate your own clitoris or let your
lover stimulate your clitoris with his free hand or with a
vibrator. You will find that your hand or a vibrator can easily
slide between you and your lover regardless of what position you
are in.
While giving fellatio, wet your finger and rub your lovers anus
or insert it slightly inside the anus or penetrate deeper if
they enjoy it. Stimulation of the anus during fellatio can
enhance fellatio to ecstatic heights for some men.
This also applies to women. While giving her oral use your
fingers or vibrator to thrust within her vaginally while licking
her clitoris or wet your finger and rub or penetrate her anus.
While having intercourse reach between his legs and gently
massage his testicles. This will feel especially good if you
slide your hand through your juices and then massage your juices
over his testicles.
Instead of watching an erotic video make one of your own. It can
be very exciting and arousing to perform in front of the camera.
You can then watch the video in another session for some
additional pleasure.
Add some flavors to your oral. Food such as fruit, chocolate,
ice cream or any favorite food of yours or your lovers can be
very tasty and add some playfulness to your routine. Bananas are
particularly tasty and fun.
Prior to having sex take a shower together and wash each other.
This makes us squeaky clean for some great oral and provides us
with a great opportunity for arousal and setting the mood. While
in the shower you can have some appetizer sex or make it the
main course. Bending over in the shower and doing doggy style
standing up can be particular fun and enjoyable. The wetness of
the shower provides great lubrication and allows for thrusting
with great ease and deeper penetration.
If you typically have sex in the bedroom then have sex in other
rooms in the house such as the kitchen floor or table, or the
living room couch or carpet, or on the stairs, or on the sink in
the bathroom. You can add some extra special spice by doing it
on the patio, in the yard or on the children's play set in the
sunshine or underneath the moonlight.
If you typically have sex at night with the lights out, then
have sex with the lights on or with candles or have it in the
morning or in the afternoon. If you typically have only
intercourse then try having an evening of nothing but oral sex.
Take turns satisfying one another so that each of you can devote
all your attention to the other orally.
Give your lover a massage, but instead of using your hands use
your mouth and tongue.
To add a little pizzazz to the missionary position you can put a
pillow underneath her butt and this allows for deeper
penetration and it allows her to stimulate her clitoris on your
pelvic bone and you can both reach orgasm together.
The key here is variety and adventure. Do activities, techniques
and positions that are unique for you as a couple.