Did He Really Behave Himself At This Year's Office Christmas
Party?
"Did He Really Behave Himself At This Year's Office Christmas
Party? 6 Tips To Spot If Your Man Is A Saint Or A Sinner"
Author and persuasion coach, Tony Walker has been striking fear
into the hearts of liars and cheats this Christmas with the
release of his "Human Lie Detector" book entitled, Liar Liar
Pants On Fire!
We are said to be lied to, on average, every ten minutes.
For most of us we even lie to our children. How many of us
pretend Santa Claus is real in order to convince our kids to
behave themselves all year?
Sadly, one of the biggest reasons those close to us may lie is
to conceal infidelity. And with the alcohol-fueled, mistletoe
entangled festive season now rampant, there are many more
opportunities for the man in your life to stray from the path of
fidelity than at any other time of year.
Often, the lies that follow one drunken moment of stupidity can
be more damaging to a relationship than the act itself.
Just as damaging though is constantly accusing someone of
something they didn't do.
As well as all the good stuff though, it's well known that
Christmas is also a time that sees more breakups, fights and
arguments than any other.
So, if you don't want to be left wondering this year, here are 6
quick tips for calming your worries or confirming your suspicion.
1. AVOID CONFRONTATION If you suspect you are being lied to then
should you confront the liar immediately? I would generally
suggest not. Often the best approach is to note the fact in your
mind and continue with the conversation, with a view to
extracting more information.
This will tend to confirm or deny your suspicions without
causing an awkward scene if your hunch proves false. Once you
confront someone who has lied to you (or not) the tone of the
conversation can change and gathering additional facts becomes
almost impossible.
2. LOOK THEM IN THE EYES A person who is lying to you may do
everything possible to avoid making eye contact. Others may make
exaggerated and over prolonged eye contact in an effort to
convince you of their sincerity.
3. LITTLE MOVEMENTS Hands may go up to the face or throat,
especially to the mouth. But contact with the body is limited to
these areas. The liar may also be unlikely to touch the chest
with an open hand gesture. The liar may also touch the nose or
scratch behind the ear. If he is trying to appear casual and
relaxed about his answer, he may shrug a little as he talks.
4. TIMING The timing may seem off between gestures and words. If
the facial expression comes after the verbal statement ("I am so
angry with you right now" ... pause ... and then the angry
expression), it provides further evidence of potential deceit.
5. EXPRESSIONS In some cases a liar's gesture or facial
expression won't always match their words. Examples such as
frowning when saying "I love you" or tightly clenched fists
while stating appreciation or pleasure spring to mind.
Expression will also regularly be limited to the mouth area,
rather than the whole face when the person is feigning certain
emotions - happiness, surprise, awe etc.
6. POSTURE The liar may be reluctant to face the accuser and may
turn the head or shift the body away. If a lie has been
committed the accused will probably slouch; he is unlikely to
stand tall with his arms out or outstretched.
There could also be movement away from the accuser, possibly in
the direction of the nearest exit.
Above are just 5 possible giveways, even if someone is
displaying all of them it doesn't necessarily mean they are
lying. So before you think about flying off the handle think
about this... In Liar Liar you'll discover...
- 11 Non-verbal giveaways - 8 Common tricks used by liars - 16
General Indications Of Deceit - An inside look at a liar's head
- 11 Non-confrontational interrogation techniques - 4 tactics
for gathering evidence in every day conversations
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