Choosing the Perfect Wedding Rings
As you are deciding on which wedding rings you and your beloved
desire to wear as a symbol of your undying love for one another
you may be interested in how this practice came about and the
true meaning of wedding rings.
The ring of course is a circle and a circle symbolizes infinity,
agreement, harmony, rebirth and the universe. In ancient times
the rings was connected with the Sun and Moon. It was believed
that a ring would protect and was a magical guard, so to speak
to ward off all negativity through its continuity. Rings were
considered to be magical and/or sacred. Gods and Goddesses even
wore rings such as in the Babylonian mythology with tales of the
rings of Shamash and Marduk. Rings have always been associated
with the magic, the zodiac, and even more. Even today, the
wedding ring is believed to hold a kind of power that can be
seen when a priest or minister blesses the wedding rings before
the couple exchanges them. This practice symbolizes protective
powers over their marriage or union.
Now you may be wondering why a wedding ring is worn on the "ring
finger". Well, this also goes back to ancient times and once
again magic. As you delve into history of the wedding ring and
the reason, it is placed on the third finger you will marvel at
some of the beliefs. Here are a few historical facts concerning
the "ring finger". In ancient times, the third finger was used
to apply herbal medicines to the body because the effectiveness
of the cure would be stronger. It was also believed that a nerve
from the third finger went directly to the heart. In astrology,
this belief is similar, the "ring finger" is called the heart
finger because of the belief of the special nerve or vein that
was in the third finger connected to the heart and was a symbol
of loved and fidelity. No matter where you search throughout
history the third finger has always been used a symbol of love,
faithfulness, trustworthiness, and fidelity.
With that said, you know just how important the wedding ring has
been throughout history is not just a ring but was used as a
promise and union between couples. So, now it is time for you to
choose your everlasting wedding rings that will not only
symbolize your love and devotion for one another but also
withstand time and last forever, as your love for each other.
As you begin looking online and at your favorite jewelers you
will find many exquisite wedding rings and some are sure to be
out of your price range. The number one thing to do is to set a
budget. No matter how much you can afford to spend, you will be
able to find the perfect set of wedding rings that will show
your love.
Next, you will have to decide what type of material you would
like your rings to be created from. Weddings rings are designed
from materials such as yellow gold, white gold, sterling silver,
platinum, and titanium.
Yellow gold is still one of the most popular materials for
engagement rings and wedding bands and can be found in 10K, 14K,
or 18K.
White gold is becoming a bit more popular because it tends to
look a tad more modern and stylish.
Platinum is one of the hardest metals that is used to create
engagement and wedding rings. Many people are now choosing this
material because of its durability and the idea that like their
marriage it will withstand time. Platinum is a very pure more so
than gold, which is normally, only 75 percent gold and platinum
rings are usually around 95 percent platinum. These rings do
tend to be a bit more expensive but you are more than likely
hoping that your ring will last forever, so the price is well
worth a ring that is so durable.
Next, of course is titanium. Titanium is kind of the new metal.
It is very long lasting, lightweight and not very expensive.
These are the most durable wedding rings on the market and are
very popular among men because of their elegant style and
withstanding power. Yes, you can scratch the ring, but overall
they will withstand so much more wear and tear than any other
metal.
You may hear that you should choose a wedding ring that will
match most of your clothing, but I totally disagree with this
statement. A wedding ring is not just costume jewelry that needs
to blend in with your outfits. Your wedding ring should be one
that you desire to wear every day for the rest of your life. If
you looking for a wedding ring to match your clothing then you
are really looking for a mere decoration for your finger and not
a symbol of everlasting love.
Now you know what material you would love to wear but now comes
the hardest part of all. You must now choose the style. First,
you must decide if you both wish to wear matching designs or if
you prefer your own individual style. The most common styles for
wedding rings include the traditional plain bands, bands with
beaded edges, bands with etched designs, two-tone bands, Celtic
wedding bands, solitaire rings with a precious stone such as a
diamond, and solitaries that have one larger stone with smaller
stones circling.
Choosing the perfect gemstone for your wedding ring can also be
difficult. Diamonds of course are the most popular. However,
even with diamonds, you have choices to make; you will need to
decide on size and even color. Pink diamonds are now becoming
very popular for many women. Remember not to choose soft
gemstones such as amethyst or aquamarine as they can be damaged
if worn every day. The harder stones are better for durability
such as diamonds, rubies and sapphires.
Remember, above all, these are the weddings ring that you both
will wear for a very long time. It should stand for you love and
devotion and commitment to one another. Choose one that will
last.