ENVY

ENVY So many women take it upon themselves to be the judge and the jury, according to their opinions of other women. Some of these women don't even know the women that they have the audacity to attempt to judge and talk negatively about. What is really their problems? They are very insecure women who are envious with no self-confidence and they are just dying to be you....The Confident Woman. These women......the ones who envy...........are looking for identities and they want so much to be like you. They want to emulate everything that you do from the way that you dress to the way that you talk and walk. It is something isn't it? They will talk negatively about the way you wear your hair or something that you are wearing and will try to come back the next day looking exactly like you. Stupid idiots! Theses type of women really don't know what it is they want in life. They haven't accomplished much and they are angry at you because you've worked hard to get where you are today. It should seem that these women would use their envious feelings for other women as some sort of motivation to better their lives. After all, the reason why they are envious is because of what you have ....right? If they tried to accomplish a little of that, maybe their lives would get better. If they used that negative envious energy to go back to school, get a better job, or get a makeover or something, they would probably be on the road to more self-confidence and less stress from the envious energy they are carrying around. If you are an envious woman, you really don't accomplish much by trying to make other women lives miserable because you aren't happy with your own life. The first step for you is to try to improve your life and yourself altogether. Being envious of other women should be motivation to get your lives the way you want them so you wouldn't need to envy other women. If you don't have what they have right now.......you know you are working toward it. Don't try to be like the women you are envying, instead inspire to be better. If you are The Confident Woman whose being envied, then you continue to do you and be you. You haven't done anything wrong. You can't help it because you are attractive, smart, and the center of attention. You deserve it! You have worked hard and sacrificed. You continue to do what's necessary to keep yourself happy. If you are envied in the process, then oh well. They can either join the party or they can take a trip where the weather is al ways extra hot! Monica M. Burns copyright2005 Monica M. Burns. All Right Reserved. About The Author Monica M. Burns is a Writer, Expert Author, and Editor of Monica M. Burns, Inc. Information Publications, small web based businesses providing informational self-help products for women. She is also the Editor/Owner of Independent Women Online Magazine and Sweet Stimulations Online websites. She has authored several eBooklets and other reading information materials and is a featured Expert Author on many websites and magazines. She has also contributed to several Poetic Anthologies. If you would like to publish any of this author's articles electronically or in print to your websites, ebooks, newsletters, or ezines, you MUST include this resource box. Visit her websites at: http://monicaburns.tripod.com www.monicamburns.vstore.ca http://monicaburns.tripod.com/sweetstimulations/