Domestic Violence Dr Jekyll or Mr Hyde
Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde a two in one package, that springs to
mind every time I hear of another case of domestic violence. How
many men/women can relate to this personality disorder in their
partner?
There are no excuses for the people who inflict pain on another
human being. It was a deadly potion concocted by the famous Dr
Jekyll that led to the actions of the notorious Mr Hyde where
innocent victims perished. For those victims there were no
choices whether they lived or died all because they were unaware
of what was around the corner.
You the victim of domestic violence have no corners to turn, at
least you know when to expect the next punch or kick in the
head. How much longer will you go on making excuses for the
broken bones and bruises? How long before permanent damage is
done, if not already. Believe me when I say the situation can
only get worse unless you act now and get help.
How can you ever be happy being on the receiving end of a
clenched fist and god forbid should there be any children in
this abusive relationship, I urge you even more to get out.
There will always be the nice side to that person you once
thought you knew, but niceness is not enough to overpower evil.
You still have life for the time being; do not let anyone speed
up an early grave for you
Right now there is a fortunate patient being treated for cuts
and bruises at the AE unit spinning yarns to cover up for their
abuser. Doctors are not stupid especially when these one off
visits become regular. Then we have the less fortunate lying on
a cold mortuary slab.
Family members and friends are the first to notice all the signs
of domestic violence, and should they voice their opinion on the
matter it is because they care and are concerned for your
safety. Domestic violence can blind the victim into believing
that they deserve this sort of punishment. Poppycock, no
woman/man deserves to be beaten by the hands of another.
Fear plays an important why many victims do not take action in
getting out of the abusive relationship. If you are looking for
a way out then do not hesitate to talk to a help group. Even the
law is on your side so you see you are not alone. Approx 1
million women a year suffer in silence at the hands of their
abuser but manage to escape with their lives. It is known that
approx four million American women a year experience an assault
from their partners
Most common perpetrator in many domestics in the home is the
man. For your own safety listen to the people who want to help.
Believe it when I say, no woman is as physically strong as the
male species so this is one battle you are never going to win
when it comes down to fisty cuffs.
Why put up with the torture of not knowing which identity your
partner is going take on for the night. Will it be Jekyll or
Hyde?
Back to the fear factor, you have two options. You can continue
to still live in fear and beaten or leave and be feared with out
the beatings. You get to choose.
Many of the abused who leave their partners will always be
apprehensive and in some unfortunate cases where the victim is
mentally scarred may live in fear for the rest of their lives.
But with the help of family friends and help groups the fear can
become a thing of the past. Claim back your pride with help and
guidance then maybe you can go out and live your life to the
full. Help groups deal with domestic violence on a daily basis
and are there to help you in your fight for liberation.
Love is a misunderstanding between two fools I have heard say,
and in an abusive relationship one gets to be an idiot. You have
the idiot who slays or the idiot who stays. Check my information
page if you feel the time is right to make a stand and get out.
http://www.benidormbeaches.com